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1. Transcript
1.1. Session One (June 19, 2014)
- COATES
- My name is Julia Coates, and today is June 19, 2014, and I am with Joe
Benitez at the offices, the tribal offices of the Cabezon Band in Indio.
And I guess to start out, if you think this is a good place to start
out, you told me on the phone that you are Chemehuevi also, is that
right?
- BENITEZ
- Yes.
- COATES
- Would that be sort of a beginning place?
- BENITEZ
- Yes, that’s a very good beginning place. It’s an interesting story of
how I got mixed in with the Cahuillas. [laughter]My name is Joe Benitez, and presently I’m seventy-nine years old. I live
on a reservation, and my wife Diane and I have lived there for
thirty-nine years, and I’ve lived there all my life. We have four
children. Two are hers and one is mine, and one is ours, and they grew
up on a reservation with us, which gives them kind of a little bit of
insight of this family and how it grew up and what we used to do and
what things that I had to go through over the years with leading a small
tribe. I was born in an Indian Health Hospital in San Jacinto, California,
which is the Soboba Indian Reservation, and that hospital stayed there
until 1952, serving Indians in Riverside County and San Bernardino
County. I was moved from there to the reservation where I presently
live, back in 1935, and lived off the reservation at different intervals
during my growing-up period. My stepfather was a farm worker, and so he
worked at different farms throughout Southern California, and so that
allowed me to be traveling with them to different parts of the state in
seek of employment. So I got to go to different schools, public schools.
I never did want to go to the boarding school because that available to
me, but I wasn’t interested in it.
- COATES
- Which boarding school? Was this Sherman?
- BENITEZ
- Sherman. This was Sherman Institute. At that time, it was called Sherman
Institute. But I chose to travel with them and went to different
schools. The furthest I went was the Mojave Desert up in the central
part of California, and went down into Los Angeles County; my parents
did harvesting there. And lived off the reservation till I was probably,
oh, I would say about six, seven years old.The interesting part is I never wanted to go to a boarding school, but my
mother wanted me to go to a Catholic boarding school in Banning, which
was called St. Boniface. I stayed there for six months, hated every
moment of it because I didn’t like the Catholic nuns, who were very,
very mean, and the Catholic priests were about the same. We did have
opportunities to go into the city of Banning, go to movies on the
weekends, but that never made up the difference. It was just being away
from my mother and my stepfather and just being in a different
environment. I didn’t like living with a bunch of boys, you know,
because I never had any brothers that lived with me. So consequently, I
grew up as an only child. Well, I did have a half brother that I didn’t
know anything about until later on in years. So I stayed there for about six months and then moved back down into the
Coachella Valley. My stepfather worked for a date farmer, and so we went
to live there on this ranch in what is called Thermal; Thermal,
California. Then he didn’t want to work for them anymore, so we moved to
another ranch further south, and I went to another little school and
stayed there for probably about a year. Then we finally moved back to the reservation after all that time. We
never had a home that was considered an up-to-date home like my friends
at the school I had. Mine was a shack. Mine didn’t have any running
water, no inside facilities, no electricity, so consequently, during the
summertimes it got very hot, you know, and very cold during the
wintertimes. So, lived there and started my school on a steady basis in one location,
and I went to grammar school first. I completed the fifth grade and then
went to middle school, sixth, seventh, and eighth, and then went to high
school in 1950 and graduated in ’54, and I still lived in the same
place. Then, finally, I went to Riverside City College when I graduated,
and I didn’t graduate from Riverside City College. Came home and married
my first wife, and we lived off of the reservation then.But I was still involved with the Tribal Council. That’s when I was old
enough to sit on the council and be a part of the board. And in 1961, I
was elected chairman for the tribe, and I held that position until 1981.
Did a lot of different things for the tribe and got things moving,
because I had a business education background, and the Tribal Council
had placed a lot of confidence in me, so that I went after different
things that we needed to build on the reservation. 1981, before I left
office, so we brought a developer down. I brought a developer down that
helped the tribe further their development.
- COATES
- I think I’ll pause it. [recorder turned off]
- BENITEZ
- And then my last thing was to bring in something, someone into the tribe
to develop even further. So that’s where I left off.
- COATES
- Okay.
- BENITEZ
- Okay. So are you ready to record?
- COATES
- We are recording.
- BENITEZ
- Oh, we are recording. Oh, okay.
- COATES
- We have been recording. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Oh, okay.
- COATES
- We’re good. It’s fine.
- BENITEZ
- I didn’t say anything out of context.
- COATES
- [laughs] Aw, tell a joke. Come on.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, I can tell a joke. Well, there was this— [laughter] No, won’t tell
that one. But anyway—
- COATES
- Can you talk about your family’s ancestry going back several generations
on each side and so forth, who they are, and all of that?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah. This will be something of a history that’s been recorded not
only by a written book, but there was a movie made out of it.
- COATES
- Oh, really?
- BENITEZ
- Mm-hmm. And it involved my family, my great-grandfather and my aunt.
This happened in 1909. My aunt, who was kind of involved with this young
man, his name was Willie Boy. They called him Willie Boy. This was
during the summertime, and the summertime was the peak season for
picking fruit in the Banning area, had a lot of apricots and peaches and
that type of thing. So the family lived in Twentynine, Twentynine Palms,
and they would travel every season. They would come down here during the
winter, and then they would go up there during the summer to harvest
fruit. So anyway, this one summer, Willie Boy had been drinking downtown with a
bunch of cowboys and so forth, and they were teasing him about going to
get his woman, and I guess the drunker he got, the more he thought about
it. So anyway, he went to the camp where they were camping, and he
wanted to take my aunt, and off they go. Well, my grandfather said, “No,
she’s too young.” She was sixteen at the time.So anyway, a fight had ensued, and Willie Boy had a rifle with him and—or
no, he didn’t. Yeah, he did. He had a rifle, and he told my grandfather
that he was going to take the daughter, and the grandfather said, “No,
you’re not.”And so a fight started, and he shot him, killed him. So then he was going
to kill the rest of the family, and my aunt agreed, “No, you leave them
alone. I’ll go with you.” So she did. So he headed south towards Whitewater, which you passed on the way down
here, headed towards Whitewater, dragging her along, and they went up to
Mission Creek, which is a canyon, and they kept going up. By this time,
the posse was formed, including a couple of Indian trackers, and they
tracked him down to Whitewater and then they tracked him up into the
canyon. He was up on the ridge and they were down below, and he opened
fire on the posse and hit the sheriff. He shot him in the back, and the
only thing that saved him was a pair of handcuffs that he had on the
back, and he killed several of the horses, shot them out. So they took off and went back towards Banning to get reprovisioned, and
so Willie Boy did the same thing, only he didn’t take my aunt with him,
because he said, “Well, she’s holding me back when she’s really tired.”
So he left her there. He left her with his coat. So he went to
Twentynine Palms, where his grandmother lived, and wanted to refresh his
provisions and get another rifle and so forth, and ammunition. So on the way back, he came back and he couldn’t find where my aunt was.
Apparently, the posse had shot her as well, thinking it was Willie Boy,
and, of course, the first book doesn’t depict that. It depicts him being
shot and laying on the ground. Well, we surmised in looking at the
picture that they showed, that this person was too big to be Willie Boy,
because Willie Boy was slight in stature and very short. So they never
said anything about it. They just said, “Well, Willie Boy killed your
aunt.”So anyway, they were still shooting at him when he came back, but he was
able to elude them, and they say they killed him, but they didn’t. So he
went towards Las Vegas, Nevada. He had relatives up there because he was
Paiute and not Chemehuevi, but they were related. They were related
somehow, and that was the reason my grandfather didn’t want them getting
together, because they were too close in relationship.So anyway, he eventually died wherever he was, and a lot of the relatives
attested to that. So anyway, that’s the synopsis of that history, that
part of history of my grandparents. I never knew him. I never knew my
grandmother, because she passed probably in 1938, or before that,
because I was born in ’35, so I never knew her, never knew my
grandparents. I didn’t even know that Twentynine Palms was a reservation
for the Chemehuevis, and I was later to learn that through the book and
through other writings that that’s where we originated from. So my cousins across the street own 29, Spotlight 29, and they’re
Chemehuevi. [laughter] My mother, bless her soul, we kind of lived
together on the same section of land, which is across the highway, and
she decided that she wanted to stay on the reservation because she
already had her allotment. So she wanted to be a part of the Cabezons
because she thought that being part of the Cabezons, she could keep her
property and stay there. Well, as it worked out, that’s what happened is
that she became a part of the Tribal Council and her property was still
in the Cabezon Reservation. So the 29 were part of the reservation as well. So in 1960, somewhere
around 1960s, the Cabezons and the 29 decided to split the section of
land that’s on the other side of the freeway, and so they did. The
councils got together and decided, “Yes, you can have your council and
we’ll have our council.” So that became Twentynine Palms, and that’s how
they got a casino on the other side of the freeway. My uncles were singers. They sang the songs. They sang at funerals. They
sung at fiestas. Very good singers, and I often wanted them to teach me,
but they wouldn’t. They wouldn’t teach me, I guess because I didn’t have
enough interest or—I don’t know what it was, but I sure wanted to learn.
- COATES
- What kinds of songs were they?
- BENITEZ
- What we call bird songs, bird songs and funeral songs. Funeral songs, of
course, are only song at funerals. Bird songs are sung at fiestas. So I
wanted to learn the bird songs, but they didn’t teach me, so I didn’t
get to learn. I learned the language. My mother talked to me in Chemehuevi all the
time. When I went to school, when I started school, I was, oh, probably
in the second grade, third grade, and I was still talking my tongue, and
the teacher told me, she said, “Well, you can’t talk that in here.” And I said, “Well, there’s nobody to talk to anyway.” She said, “Well, you’ll have to learn English.” And I said, “Hmm.”I went home and told my mother. She said, “Well, you’ll have to do that
in order to survive in the school.” And I said, “Oh, okay.”So anyway, I started learning English and still talking to my mother in
my own tongue, but consequently, after years of not living with her as
much as I had, I kind of lost some of it, and I started speaking more
English.
- COATES
- Are there still speakers today?
- BENITEZ
- There are speakers over in Chemehuevi Valley. They still speak the
language. It was so funny, one time I went to a meeting over there. They
invited me to come over for a meeting, and so I went. And here their
council was sitting, and I was sitting opposite them. They were
chattering back and forth, you know, and pretty soon they stopped, and I
said, “What did you stop for?” And they looked at me and said, “You understand what we’re saying, don’t
you?” I says, “Yes.” [laughter] He says, “Do you speak?” I says, “Very few words.” I says, “I know some of the words, but I
understand more than I speak.” And they said, “Oh, okay. That’s good. You can learn. You can
learn.” I said, “All right.” So anyway, that was just one comical thing that
happened later on in life. Then I got so associated with different organizations downtown in the
community that I was slowly getting away from the Indian community and
picking up more of the white man’s community, you know, and I had a lot
of friends that were Indian throughout the county on different
reservations, so they knew who I was. But I got more involved with the
white man’s way of life. I married a non-Indian, and my mother didn’t object to that. She said,
“That’s okay.” She loved my first wife. Because she was interested in
what my mother was interested in, she wanted to learn language, she
wanted to learn the ways, and that’s what impressed my mother.
Unfortunately, she died at an early age because of an illness. So anyway, I moved back to the res, and I went to work locally and
worked there for a while, and I didn’t really, really like it, but I did
it because it was a way of earning a living. I really wanted to be a
manager of a store that I worked for, and they kept pushing me back,
pushing me back, even though I had the education.So anyway, the day came when they finally made the transition. I became
an assistant manager, and they wanted me to take over managership in
Flagstaff. They wanted to send me out of the country. [Coates laughs.]
And I said, “No, I don’t want to go.” I said, “My son is here. He’s
already in school and he wants to stay here and finish his schooling.” I
said, “I’ll just have to pass it up.”So I still am assistant manager, and they would send me back and forth to
a store in the Palm Springs during the summers, and that’s where I met
my second wife, who’s Diana. But she was still married, so I never made
anything with her until she finally got a divorce, and then we got
married later and had one child. She grew up on a reservation along with
my two stepchildren. My son was getting old enough that he was starting
to get out on his own. He was ready to graduate from high school. So he
decided that he would move out, live uptown. So he did, and that was
okay.
- COATES
- You explained this to me at lunch, but just for the recording, can you
explain about uptown, what that is?
- BENITEZ
- Uptown is the city of Indio, the community.
- COATES
- [laughs] Okay.
- BENITEZ
- It was a small, small town. It wasn’t large, and it was not like what it
is today. I think there was probably 20,000 people, at best.
- COATES
- And what is it now?
- BENITEZ
- It’s probably at 150,000.
- COATES
- Wow.
- BENITEZ
- So it’s grown quite a bit. It’s expanded. And that’s where my playground
was when I was growing up, because I had a lot of friends that went to
school with me, and so that was my playground. So when I got out of
college, I came back, I went to work, and then when my wife passed away,
I came back to the reservation and lived with my parents. In the meantime, the reservation in Morongo, which is by the city of
Banning up on the Interstate 10, they were looking for a director for
their medical clinic, and then I became a medical director, director for
that clinic, there for seven, eight years, and I got a real good
understanding of different tribes in the county, as well as all over the
United States, because that’s where it took me. In the meantime, I got married with Diana, and I moved her out to the
res, and she was happy. She was happy with that. So I continued to work,
driving back and forth from Indio to Banning. And all the time, my relatives who were passing on, all my uncles and
aunts passed on, and the siblings were still here, and, of course, I
knew who they were, so I would go visit with them once in a while. So
finally they took over the reservation here and they finally got a
casino. So then I got more involved with them. I’m still involved with
this tribe, being a former chairman, and I was still working with the
clinic and doing a lot of traveling all over the United States, because
Indian Health Service had a board in Colorado, and so that was the main
office. So I became a member of that board as well and a board in
California, so I had a dual role, plus I was still running the clinic.
And fortunately, I had a very good administrative assistant, because she
took a lot of work from me. [Coates laughs.]So in doing this—I did that for, like, say, about seven years, and then I
finally decide, “This is too much, too much. I can’t handle it.” So I
came back, went to work with an irrigation distribution company, and
stayed there for about twenty years till I retired.So that’s where it’s kind of taken me in my younger, youthful days in my
early twenties, my early thirties, and probably my early forties. So
then I was still a member here and going to tribal meetings and so
forth, but I never got involved. I didn’t want to get involved back with
chairmanships. I’d had enough. So as far as my relatives are concerned,
I have those across the street that are my cousins. I have numerous
cousins in the State of Nevada, that they’re offsprings of my youngest
uncle, who’s passed now.
- COATES
- And they just moved over there or they—
- BENITEZ
- They were born there. They were born on a reservation that he moved to
and married a Paiute lady that was a member of that reservation. So they
just kind of moved there. They had their children. They had nine
children, and then just kind of just grew up there, and all of
these—there’s about 350 relatives that I have up there. [laughter]
- COATES
- But who’s counting, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, really, really. And they’re still populating. [laughter] So
anyway, that kind of takes us to where I spent most of my life doing
different things and being part of a tribe, being part of another tribe.
- COATES
- When you were growing up, you grew up on the reservation.
- BENITEZ
- Yes.
- COATES
- What do you remember about it? Were you aware that it was a reservation?
Was there a divide between it and the town? Just what are your memories
about growing up in that community?
- BENITEZ
- I remember it as there were other families that lived on the
reservation, not specifically Natives. They were Hispanic and Negro.
- COATES
- Were they leasing reservation land or something?
- BENITEZ
- The Negros had come from the South, and it was during that period of
time when there was a high influx of Negros coming west, and apparently
one of the tribal members was approached by one of the main persons of
all those Negro people, and he wanted to lease some property, and the
tribal member said, “Yeah, sure.” So anyway, that started the first
family, and then another family showed up, and then another family
showed up. There used to be probably sixty families that lived across
the street, and there was one, two—two Hispanic families that lived
there, and they were both farmers. They farmed the land. But the Negro
people worked off different trades that they were used to doing, and
they lived there for a good number of years until they were moved off by
the county. The county came in and condemned all our housing because it
was all substandard housing.
- COATES
- All the tribal housing, or what was—
- BENITEZ
- The Negros’ housing.
- COATES
- Okay. And they had built these homes themselves?
- BENITEZ
- They had built these homes themselves.
- COATES
- And they built it on the reservation?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- So there was no consultation with the—
- BENITEZ
- With the county or city or anybody like that.
- COATES
- Or with the tribe? Was there a tribe or tribal organization at that
point?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah, there was a tribal organization, but they couldn’t say
anything because that was an allotted piece of land. And so the famers
had allotted lands, too, so they were renting those properties. So the
tribe couldn’t say anything against them.So they—I don’t know. There must have been—well, it wasn’t only on
this—there’s a railroad track that runs down the middle. It’s the main
line for Southern Pacific, and there was a piece of property on the
other side that there was a lot of Negros living over there as well.
There was even a little grocery store on one of the streets on the other
side that serviced them, and then they moved in a migratory camp on the
other side, which was like a farm labor camp back in the late thirties.
- COATES
- So that’s what they were doing? They were farm workers, huh? Did farm
work?
- BENITEZ
- They were farm workers and builders and carpenters. A lot of them were
carpenters, so they built their own homes.
- COATES
- Did the town have laws at that time that they couldn’t live within the
boundaries or something like that? Is that why they were kind of in
these places?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, at that time, at that time. A lot of prejudice going on during
that time, so they didn’t want the blacks moving up into their
territory. So they made it so that they couldn’t because of land prices
and so forth. This one Negro man, he was kind of like the leader and he was a
minister, he formed a community within the community, and it was all
Negro, and it started to expand, and they called it Noble’s Ranch
because that man’s name was Noble. So then people that were living on
the other side of the street started to move a little bit, and then when
the county came in, they started condemning their shacks, their
shanties, and their homes, and the Negros didn’t have anywhere to go. So
Mr. Noble had built some houses and were building houses there on this
community, and then finally they moved way out west of town and built
another community that they started moving into. And all of this was
razed. They razed all of those community housing. There was two government homes that were built on the reservation back
in the thirties, and that’s where the one Hispanic person lived. There
was three government homes. There were three Hispanic families. One
lived in one government home, and that was actually assigned to that
tribal owner, and then the other one was right next door, so they lived
in that, and then there was another one way down south of where those
two were. And there was a community well that was built and drilled by
Indian Health Service way back in the thirties, so that was the central
water and irrigation and drinking water and everything was right there,
so that’s why all the Negros moved into that area, because there was
water there. Pretty soon, they finally got the electricity. Well, the
electricity was already there because of the well. So they just started
feeding off of it.
- COATES
- And were there tribal families living around them as well or—
- BENITEZ
- No, it was just one.
- COATES
- Just yours or more?
- BENITEZ
- No—well, I’m sorry. There was two. Ours—
- COATES
- Besides yours. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- I forgot about mine. There was two. Mine and another elder that lived in
the—that was a fourth government home too. They lived in a government
home, and he lived there with his wife. No children. They lived there by
themselves. He used to raise all kinds of heck with all of the community
there because he’d get so drunk and he’d go down and tell all the
people, “Get off my reservation,” all of that, you know. [laughter] They
never paid attention to him. They knew he was harmless anyway. So
anyway, he finally passed, and then all the houses got razed.
- COATES
- So did they get razed after he had passed away or before? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- That home, I don’t know what happened to that. I think that home burned
down is what happened.
- COATES
- His home, huh?
- BENITEZ
- His home. His home burned down. The other three homes were still there,
and then they razed those as well. They had no business doing that,
because it was government homes. So anyway, those families moved, and
then there was just us. There I was all alone, no playmates.
- COATES
- Now, where were most of the other tribal people living then, if not on
the reservation?
- BENITEZ
- Off reservation. Off reservation.
- COATES
- In Indio or just anywhere?
- BENITEZ
- Most of them lived in Banning, the other reservation up there. Some
lived in Palm Springs. Some lived at TM, which is Torres-Martinez, but a
lot of them just moved away, or some of them moved into urban areas. I
think we had one family that moved to Los Angeles County because he
worked for the railroad.
- COATES
- Did your family continue to have contact with those that had moved away?
Did they continue to have relationships or—
- BENITEZ
- Not really. Not really. They were gone, and the only time they came back
was when a Tribal Council meeting was called. They’d all come back and
meet, then they would all leave. They were gone.
- COATES
- So you had nobody to play with, and your mother had nobody to speak with
except you.
- BENITEZ
- Well, actually, at one time there was a family that lived way down about
almost—about a half mile from where we lived on another section of land,
and there was a Hispanic family and a Native family and a tribal member
who lived down there, and I used to go down there. I’d walk all the way
down there by myself, walk all the way back, and play with the kids down
there. Sometimes they’d come up to my place and play for a while, then
go home.Actually, my playmates when I was growing up were all the Negro people,
the Negro kids. They knew who I was, and we did a lot of things
together, and even today I meet one or two of them that are still alive.
A lot of them have passed, but I still keep in contact with a couple of
them that are still here.
- COATES
- So when all their houses were razed and everything, they didn’t leave
the area then, huh?
- BENITEZ
- No, they stayed here in the area. They just went to the Noble’s Ranch
area that had all those other homes on the properties.
- COATES
- So you continued to see them in school and—
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, I saw them in school.
- COATES
- —all the rest while you were growing up.
- BENITEZ
- Even when I went to high school, I saw a lot of them there.But I guess development came to that part of the reservation when
somebody had put an equipment rental place and sales of tractors along a
dirt road. She told me one day—and I was older; I was in my twenties, I
guess. And she told me, she said, “I’m going to put a road through here,
so that my patrons can come in a little easier, and we can get our
equipment out, and equipment coming in, we can get it in a little
better.” I said, “Great.” So she did. She built a street from, oh, probably about
a quarter of a mile that she put in, and that was a great thing, because
before that, it was dirt, it was a dirt road. So that was one develop,
and then pretty soon there were small developments going along that road
as it went down south of where I live.
- COATES
- So this was in the forties, probably?
- BENITEZ
- This was in the fifties, the fifties. Forties, there wasn’t much
anything out there except the Negro families and Hispanic families and
myself and the one elderly Native.
- COATES
- Were the people in Indio aware that this was a reservation?
- BENITEZ
- They didn’t have a clue. They never had a clue that that was a
reservation for years, and then—
- COATES
- Did they know there were Indian people around?
- BENITEZ
- They knew me. They knew me and they knew some others that lived
elsewhere on the other reservation. But they knew me and they knew I was
Indian, and they always asked me where I live. I said, “I live on a
reservation.” They said, “Well, where’s the reservation?” I said, “The reservation is just east of here.”We used to all—when I was going to grade school or middle school, we used
to all walk. We never had bus service from—it was probably about, oh,
I’d say a quarter of a mile that we had to walk to school. So they would
always ask me, says, “How do you get to your reservation?” I said, “Well, you go down this road and you go down, you keep going,
and you go across the railroad tracks, and, voilà, there’s the
reservation.” [laughter]So it was a fun time. It was a fun time growing up on a reservation and
knowing the people that I knew and grew up with. The friendships just
continued on, even when we got older.But when we started—this is moving fast-forward to, let’s say, the
eighties, seventies and eighties. We started developing gaming, you
know, trying to develop resources for the tribe. So it was only then
that tribal members were starting to move back, moving back into the
area, when gaming started and money was being generated and they were
looking at homes to build. Back in the nineties, that’s when they
started building homes for tribal members. So it took that long, about
ten years, from the time they started the gaming to that time, the
nineties, to start producing some kind of advantage or home things for
tribal members. So then they all started moving back.
- COATES
- Now, you said you hadn’t really kept in touch with them or anything, but
when they started to come back, everybody knew who the others were and
all of that, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, we knew who each of us were, because we would see each other at
tribal meetings, and that was the only time, and the rest of the time
they’d be gone, you know.
- COATES
- What would happen at tribal meetings? Did they occur, like, annually?
- BENITEZ
- At that time they were every six months.
- COATES
- And what would they do at those meetings?
- BENITEZ
- Discuss what’s happening with the government, is it moving forward. And
we would report to them, “Well, okay, we’ve got these things in place,
and they’re starting to move forward. We’re looking at gaming, we’re
looking at a card room, and we’re doing this. We’re looking at smoke
shops. So we’re trying to generate money.” And they said, “Okay.”
- COATES
- Now before this era, before the ’60-’61 when you became the chairman and
so forth, were these tribal meetings going on in the forties and the
fifties also?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah. They were going on in the twenties, I would say, maybe further
back, but they probably would only meet once a year, if that.
- COATES
- Was the discussion a different kind of discussion in those years than it
was in the sixties and seventies, do you know?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- I mean, you would have been pretty young, but do you know what it might
have been in those older days?
- BENITEZ
- The older days was they more or less just met for just renewal of
friendship or kinship, and that was mostly what it was for, and it
didn’t have much to do with tribal government. They met, they would have
their luncheons or dinners or whatever that went on. And discussion of
politics or anything, anything of that nature was very, very few and far
between.
- COATES
- Were people participating in ceremonials or anything like that very
much?
- BENITEZ
- The only time they participated in any ceremonials was either death—they
had their big house where they took their dead to, to have their
ceremonies, and then they would have their fiestas, where there were a
gathering of the all the tribes in the Valley at certain reservations.
And there you got to watch the singing and you got to watch the peon
games and all the cooking by all the ladies, and, you know, just
everything going on. Everybody—
- COATES
- Did you go to those when you were young?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah.
- COATES
- And you remember them?
- BENITEZ
- I never went to sleep. I was always up. All the kids were always up.
You’d hear a mom say, “Go to bed! Go to bed!” [laughter] We’d still be
running around. Funny thing about it is, you know, today’s society, we’ve got to watch
our children, we’ve got to watch what they’re doing, and, you know,
protecting them. In those days, everybody was our protector. Everybody
watched out for everybody, and they always knew where we were because we
never ventured out of that area. They knew we were in that area, and
they never worried about us. So, consequently, they could do what they
wanted to do and have a good time. So, yeah, it was neat. It was always
neat to go to those things.
- COATES
- Do you have some specific memories of something that happened at those
things?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah, really.
- COATES
- I just am interested in how does a child or a young person sort of
perceive something like that. What’s the memory?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. I used to like to watch the peon games. As a child, I’d sit there
and watch them because I was fascinated, fascinated in what they were
doing, you know, trying to guess who was moving the bones around. And
they had these blankets up, and they were on their haunches and had this
blanket stretched across, and they held it in their mouth, and they were
chanting. They were one side against the other, and they would chant.
Then all of a sudden, they would stop. They’d do like this and point to
that guy, and this guy would open his hands. He’d have nothing, so that
meant they lost. [Coates laughs.] So then they’d play another round, and
they’d do the same thing, boom, and stop and drop the blankets, then
they’d point to this certain person. Okay, he had the bones. [laughter]
So they won, so it was even, you know. And they played for money. You
know, funny thing about it is the county sheriff’s department came in
one year. I was older then too. They came in one year and shut them down
because they were gambling on the reservation. [laughter]
- COATES
- Kind of ironic now, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. Right, right, yeah. Payback time.
- COATES
- Right. [laughter] You should have let us have the peon games.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, that’s right. That’s right. Now we’re taking some of your money,
not each other’s money. But, yeah, that was fun, that was fun to watch,
and it was fascinating. Then it disappeared after that, and then I guess
when gambling came back into being on the reses, the peon games came
back. Now the young people play it, you know.
- COATES
- Had it gone underground because it had been busted, or did—
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- —people just forget about it and then they picked it up?
- BENITEZ
- No, it went underground.
- COATES
- It had always been there, huh?
- BENITEZ
- It had always been there, but the sheriff’s department—I don’t even know
how they found out, because those were always—
- COATES
- There weren’t outsiders at these things, huh?
- BENITEZ
- No, no. They were always secretive. “All right. We’re having a fiesta up
here on this res.” And everybody would just go.
- COATES
- How long would it last?
- BENITEZ
- All night. Peon games lasted all night.
- COATES
- But the whole fiesta would be—
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- Would it be like several days or just—
- BENITEZ
- It would be a couple days. And the ladies had fun. You know, they
brought enough food that they could cook for two days, two and a half
days.
- COATES
- What kinds of things did they cook?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, boy. Oh, they’d have stew going, you know. They’d have stew going,
they’d have tortillas going, they’d have beans going, and they’d have
fry bread going, and they’d have wiiwish going. Do you know what wiiwish
is?
- COATES
- No.
- BENITEZ
- It’s ground-up acorn made into a jelly-like consistency, looked like
chocolate pudding, is what it looked like. The first time Diana went to
a gathering, the ladies were saying, “Do you want some of this?”She was walking along getting her beans and her tortillas, and she said,
“Yeah, I’ll have some of that.” She said, “That looks good.” And you
could see the ladies would kind of smirk. [laughter] They kind of
smirked, and then they would watch her after we went and sat down and we
started eating. They’d watch, and and all of a sudden, she took a bite
of that, and she’d go [demonstrates]. [laughter] And they busted out
laughing. And she looked at them. She said, “[unclear].” She says,
“That’s awful.” And I says, “Well, it isn’t when you eat it with beans and your soup.”
- COATES
- Right. You have to mix it with other stuff, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, you mix it with other stuff. Because it was high in protein. It’s
high in protein. It’s very arsenic. [laughter] You could die from the
stuff too. Ladies, the elder ladies, knew how to make it. Some of the
younger ladies know how to make it pretty good, but you have to leach it
several, several times to get all the arsenic out of it.
- COATES
- Did they flavor it with stuff? I’m asking, because we have something
called kanuche, that it’s the same way unless you flavor it with
cinnamon or maple syrup or something. Something has to go into it before
it’s really palatable.
- BENITEZ
- No.
- COATES
- They just mixed it up—
- BENITEZ
- Just mix several—
- COATES
- —with all the other food.
- BENITEZ
- They just mix up with all the other food.
- COATES
- So it really is just to get the protein, then.
- BENITEZ
- Sure, it is. I love to eat it. It’s good. [laughter]
- COATES
- Funny.
- BENITEZ
- But some of the foods that they prepared, you know, it was in bulk. They
had great big pots that they made their stew in and their beans, and
they had their flat irons that they cook their tortillas on. Everything
was done just manually, you know, nothing—
- COATES
- And it was done right there at the festival, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- They didn’t bring it from home?
- BENITEZ
- No, nuh-uh.
- COATES
- They made it right there.
- BENITEZ
- They just prepared it right there. They didn’t prepare too much meat
items, maybe some venison once in a while, because they had no way to
keep it, to preserve it. Initially, like their stews, they would make
the stew up in big pots, so that they would have it.
- COATES
- Were most people taking their living off the land to some extent? Were
they hunting, were they gathering, or were they more in jobs and then
they go to the store? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- There were a few hunters that went out to get their annual deer or
whatever, and they would save some of it and bring it to the gathering.
Rabbit, of course, was plentiful. They could get those anywhere. But a
lot of the grocery consumer stuff was like sugar and flour and—
- COATES
- All the lard and things like that, probably, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, the lard, potatoes.
- COATES
- All the things that are good for you. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. Gee whiz. Then we found out it wasn’t good for us. [laughter] It
was great. I loved eating the stuff. But that was good times. It was.
Never knew any different. We had our own little games that we played.
- COATES
- So you would just fall in with a bunch of kids, even though—did you know
them, for the most part—
- BENITEZ
- Some of them, yeah.
- COATES
- —if they were from other reservations and stuff?
- BENITEZ
- Some of them. I’d just fall in. We’d all fall in together, just have a
good time.
- COATES
- So you said you had no electricity, no running water.
- BENITEZ
- No.
- COATES
- Living in a house with no heating, no cooling.
- BENITEZ
- That’s right.
- COATES
- How many rooms were in the house?
- BENITEZ
- One big room.
- COATES
- One big room. That was it, huh?
- BENITEZ
- One big room.
- COATES
- And it was you and your parents.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- So, three of you.
- BENITEZ
- Mother cooked on the woodstove, heated her water on a woodstove, washed
her clothes outside. I used to haul the water for washing dishes and
doing laundry, and I used to haul the water for drinking. I had two
different shifts. That was my job, because I had to walk over to where
the pump was to get our water, and every once in a while—we had a ditch
that ran through by the place, and the farmer occasionally, when he ran
his irrigation water to irrigate his field, would always fill up that
ditch, and it made it a lot easier to put the washing water into big
barrels and keep that water, and it also provided a way to take a bath
too. [laughter] Otherwise, I’d have to—
- COATES
- Using the greywater, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah, yeah. Otherwise, I’d have to take a bath in the tub.
- COATES
- [laughs] Didn’t like that?
- BENITEZ
- No, no, it was—I don’t know. It was survival.
- COATES
- Yeah, yeah. So there seriously was no fires or anything like that in
the—because it gets cold here in the winter, doesn’t it?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah. The way we provided—or my stepfather provided heat for the
house was, what he would do, we always had a big stack of wood, and he
would burn several logs in a washtub, and once he got the coals in it
and everything, he’d bring it inside, and that would keep the house warm
until it went out and then it became cold. But for the majority of the
time, it would keep the house warm. During the summertimes, that was—
- COATES
- Nothing much you can do then, is it?
- BENITEZ
- Not much you can do, no. We used to take sheets and wet them and lay
them over our bodies, so that if there was any breeze, it would blow
through that and keep us cool. And during the day, we’d just sit under
trees and stay out of the sun. [laughter]
- COATES
- And try not to move very much, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, really. It was tough.
- COATES
- Yeah, I’ll bet.
- BENITEZ
- But, you know, I guess I didn’t know any better, didn’t care. When this
All-American Canal was built back in the thirties and I was old enough
to get out by myself, the Negro boys used to go with me and we’d come up
to the canal and go swimming. That was before they had an extension, any
extensions running out of the canal to irrigate fields, so the water was
fairly calm. It didn’t move very fast. So I taught a lot of the Negro
boys how to swim, and it was fun. And we’d walk all the way across the
desert going back to our houses. And the next weekend we’d do the same
thing. There was always something that we were doing just to keep
occupied. And parents knew where we were. Their parents knew where they
were too. Never had any accidents with any of those kids.
- COATES
- Didn’t lose anybody, huh?
- BENITEZ
- No, never missed anybody. Nobody drowned. [laughter]
- COATES
- Nobody got abducted, huh?
- BENITEZ
- No, nobody got abducted. Then my stepfather had an old Model-A, converted a car into a flatbed
truck, and we used to take that out on the days he wasn’t using it. I’d
drive it, and we’d get up towards the canal, driving through the sand
dunes and all that. It was fun, and here I was probably, I think
probably twelve, eleven, twelve years old, sitting back and driving—
- COATES
- He let you drive it, huh?
- BENITEZ
- —that Model-A Ford, bunch of kids in the back.
- COATES
- So you were raised primarily with your stepfather, is that—
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. My biological father I never knew. I never knew him until the day
he passed. I happened to see an obituary in the county paper and I
recognized the name, but I didn’t go to the funeral. About a month or
two later, I get a letter from the BIA telling me that my father had
passed and that they were having a hearing on his estate. So I went to
it because it requested me to, and I did, and that’s where I met my
other nine half brothers and sisters that I never knew I had. [laughter]
- COATES
- Instant family.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, really. Oh, they welcomed me like a long-lost brother. I was
amazed.
- COATES
- Are you older than them or younger than them?
- BENITEZ
- No, I’m older than them.
- COATES
- So this is a family he had afterwards, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah. I think the oldest, when he was passed, he was sixty-nine or
seventy, I think. Yeah, I had all these sisters and one brother left,
one brother left because there was four—there was either four or five
brothers and either four or five sisters. That was the instant family. I
was invited to—when they knew who I was, they surrounded me and gave me
handshakes, pats on the back.The one thing I remember that they told me was, he says, “You never knew
your father, did you?” And I said, “No, I never did.” And they said, “Well, he knew you.” And I says, “How?” And she says, “You played football, baseball, and basketball,
right?” And I said, “Yeah.” “He used to go to every one of your games.”
- COATES
- Oh, my gosh. Really?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, and I never knew it.
- COATES
- Oh, my goodness. [laughter]
- BENITEZ
- I never knew it.
- COATES
- What did that feel like?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, it just sent chills up my back. I said, “Wow. Wow.”
- COATES
- Did you see pictures of him? I mean, did you recognize the guy, that he
had been there, that you just didn’t know who he was or—
- BENITEZ
- No.
- COATES
- You just didn’t know at all?
- BENITEZ
- I never had pictures of him.
- COATES
- Oh, my gosh.
- BENITEZ
- I only got pictures after he passed. He was a handsome man, and I could
see where—
- COATES
- So you didn’t remember seeing him at the games or anything, huh?
- BENITEZ
- No, no, because I never knew what he looked like. He was a handsome man,
too, swept my mother off her feet, but they never got married. So he
married somebody else from the Morongo Reservation. That’s where he
lived.And the thing about it is I worked for that clinic up there, and nobody
told me that he used to come in there until—I guess it was after he
passed, when my administrative assistant said, “Oh, yeah, he used to
come in here all the time. I thought you knew.” And I said, “No, I didn’t.”
- COATES
- Oh, my gosh. So everybody else knew, and you didn’t?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. I didn’t.
- COATES
- Why was that, do you think?
- BENITEZ
- Well, because in tradition, Chemehuevi tradition is that when a sibling
leaves and renounces his association with their mother, he’s presumed
dead, and that’s the way it was, and so I never even knew I had a half
brother until later on. He used to come to tribal meetings, my mother
used to go to tribal meetings, but they’d never say anything to each
other, and so I’d never say anything either, until one day I asked her,
I says, “Arthur Welmas, who’s his mother?” And she just dropped her head
and her eyes, and I said, “Oh, okay. I know. Yeah, you were his
mother.” She said, “Yeah.”
- COATES
- Wow.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. So it went on that way, and she never wanted me to know about my
dad. So as far as in her tradition, you know, they were both dead. But anyway, I walked into this birthday party with my sisters up there
in Morongo. They’d invited me to go up and participate. So I walk in the
door, and everybody was making a lot of noise, and me and Diana walked
in, and I thought the “Hush, hush,” sounds just [demonstrates], just
like that, and I thought they were doing it for Diana because she was
Anglo, and then they started to chatter [demonstrates]. So then one of
the sisters got up and says, “This is my brother.” And they said, “Oh. He looks just like your father, and we thought it
was him coming back.” [laughter] I busted out [unclear]. Oh, my god.
- COATES
- You should have played along with that. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, really. Yeah, really. It was fantastic. I met all of my sisters
and my brothers that were there.
- COATES
- So how old were you when you first met all of them, approximately?
- BENITEZ
- Approximately, oh, probably sixty-five, somewhere in there, I think.
- COATES
- So this is not that long ago.
- BENITEZ
- No, it’s not long ago, because I think he died in ’84, I think,
something like that. Yeah, it was funny. But we still communicate today.
They let me know what’s going on with them, and I respond. I let them
know what’s going on with me. And they always include Diana. They say,
“How’s Diana doing?” One of them lives back in Oklahoma.
- COATES
- Oh, yeah?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah. She moved away about—oh, I think they said about ten years
ago, but she comes back periodically.
- COATES
- Did she move away for work or something like that?
- BENITEZ
- I really don’t know. I really don’t know. But, I don’t know, you know,
it’s been a family life like I’ve never experienced, finding out about
brothers and sisters, finding out what my dad was like. Because people
used to ask me, “Well, don’t you have any brothers or sisters?” I said, “No, I don’t have anybody.” “Well, where’s your father?” “I don’t know where he’s at.” And they’d say, “Well, who’s this guy?” And I say, “This is my stepfather.” And that was it. They wouldn’t ask
me any more questions, you know, because I didn’t know, really. I really
didn’t know.
- COATES
- Well, it’s an interesting thing, because you hear about so many fathers,
like, abandoning their kids and stuff like this, but this was not who
your dad was, right?
- BENITEZ
- No.
- COATES
- I mean, he had another family that he stayed with the whole time, and he
came to all your games, unknown to you.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- So he obviously invested a lot.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- And your stepfather did too.
- BENITEZ
- Sure, sure.
- COATES
- Wow.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah.
- COATES
- So your stepfather, your mother married him when you were real little, I
think, right?
- BENITEZ
- I was still an infant. I was still an infant.
- COATES
- So that was your father that you knew for all your life.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, that was my father. I take them good and bad. No, I forget about
the bad times. They worked hard.
- COATES
- They stayed together, though, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah. He helped me through a lot of things, helped me go to
college, and I knew they couldn’t really afford it, but he did anyway.
He got me through college. He couldn’t come up and watch me play ball,
but I knew he was always there. They had gotten older, so they didn’t
drive around as much. But when they were younger, they’d go different
parts. They’d go to Vegas and they’d go over to Lake Havasu and visit
with family and say, “You want to go?” I’d say, “No, I don’t want to go.” [laughter] I didn’t like the ride.
They’d go in the summertime too. It was hot.
- COATES
- No air conditioning in the car, huh? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- No, no, none whatsoever.
- COATES
- So what was it like for you going to school? Did you go to schools that
were mixed, all kinds of kids in the school—
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- —white kids, black kids, Indian kids, Hispanic kids, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, white kids, black kids, Hispanic, Indians. Not many Indians, not
many. I was very surprised at that. I think the only other Indian that
was there was a girl, McCurtain, and she was from Cherokee. Her
husband—not her husband. Her grandfather was a very important Cherokee
from Oklahoma, the McCurtain family.
- COATES
- Cherokee? Not Choctaw, huh?
- BENITEZ
- No. Cherokee. So she was the only one. She was uppity, though. She was
an uppity Indian.
- COATES
- Well, we’re that way. [laughter]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, I know. I know you guys. I know you guys.
- COATES
- But she let you know or she let it be known that she was Indian, though.
I mean, you knew she was somehow.
- BENITEZ
- Well, I knew that. The way I found out really was we had Iron Eyes Cody
come by. You remember Iron Eyes Cody?
- COATES
- Mm-hmm.
- BENITEZ
- He came and paid a visit to the middle school, and he says, “Are there
any Indian children?” So I raised my hand. He said, “Who are you?” I
told him. He said, “Okay.” Then she told him. “Oh, your grandfather’s
so-and-so, huh?” She said, “Yes.” So then I found out who she was. But anyway, my time in school was very well. I had good teachers that
believed in what I was doing. They encouraged me. There was times when I
didn’t want to go to school. I didn’t like school particularly, but they
encouraged me to stay in school and learn, and they taught me a lot of
different things, history and art and music and mathematics and
spelling. They all worked with me because they knew I had a handicap—not
a handicap, but I just couldn’t grasp things. But they encouraged
me.I finally got through it and graduated from middle school, went to high
school. Had some good teachers in high school. Got interested in sports.
Played football when I was a freshman in high school and I moved right
into varsity right after that, because I was a big kid. And baseball, I
loved baseball and played on the big team when I was a freshman. And
played basketball. I wasn’t very good, but I loved to play basketball.
But baseball was my main thing, and football. Went four years on all
three items.
- COATES
- On scholarship to—
- BENITEZ
- No scholarships.
- COATES
- Didn’t get scholarships?
- BENITEZ
- Never got one.
- COATES
- This was in high school, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, never got one. I was the All-County League lineman in my junior
year and also my senior year, but I never got a scholarship. My dream of
going to a university was University of Michigan.
- COATES
- Oh, yeah?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah.
- COATES
- Because of the football?
- BENITEZ
- Because of the football, yeah, because of the football. When I learned
that my daughter, Trayci, was going to the university, I says, “Yay!
Some part of me got to Michigan.” [laughter]
- COATES
- So how big was the high school? How many students?
- BENITEZ
- Probably five hundred, I think. It was not very big.
- COATES
- And where did they come from, just from Indio, from Palm Springs? Was it
mixed or was it just—
- BENITEZ
- From Palm Desert to Thermal, all that area, all the farming area. That’s
where they came from, and that was the only high school.
- COATES
- I’ll bet there’s a bunch now, right?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. The only other high school was Palm Springs, so we had a big
football—we had a big sports league. It stretched from this end of the
county to the other end of the county, so we had a lot of driving to do
on the school bus. It was a big league. I think there was nine—yeah,
nine high schools that competed in what they call the Riverside County
League. I was fortunate to make the two teams the two years, and then
went to Riverside City College and played baseball up there. I was going
to play both football, but my parents, I knew they couldn’t afford to
send me to school, so I just elected to play one sport and work the
other time. So I played baseball, did well at it too.
- COATES
- Now, what you’ve described to me about all the people living on the
reservation and everything, it sounds like it was something of a
segregated community where the white folks lived here and everybody else
lived there. I wondered if that was kind of the situation.
- BENITEZ
- It was. It was, yeah. It was that way kind of like going to high school
too.
- COATES
- Yeah, that’s what I was going to ask. That kind of spilled over into the
school system as well, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, it spilled over into the high school period, because that was the
fifties for me, and it was the sixties when they got all the uprisings
going between colors. But, you know, I felt it. I felt a prejudice all
my growing-up period.
- COATES
- Did you?
- BENITEZ
- In fact, I played summer Midget League softball, and one year we played
and we won the league championship within Coachella Valley. So the
coach, he says, “Well, we’re going to have a big barbecue and we’re
going to go swimming and we’re just going to have fun.” And I asked him, “Well, how are we going to get there?” He said, “Don’t worry about it. We’ve got transportation.” I said, “Okay.” So I went.We had one Negro boy that played on the team, and we showed up in Palm
Desert at a public swimming hole, swimming pool, and we all were ready
to go in, have a good time. So the coach comes back and says, “We can’t
go swimming.” We said, “Why?” And he says, “Because we have Cookie over there. He’s black, and they
won’t let him in the pool.” And he said, “You guys want to go
swimming?” And we said, “No, we’re not going swimming.” He says, “We don’t need to swim in their swimming pool, because they
won’t let him swim in their swimming pool. We don’t need to go.” And
they all agreed. He says, “Well, what do you boys want to do?” “Let’s go out in the park and have a barbecue.” So we did. And that was
the first time that we experienced that type of a prejudice, and
everybody was just really, really mad, all the boys, white, black,
Mexican, and myself.
- COATES
- You said that was the first time it happened.
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- Didn’t that happen, like, repeatedly and—
- BENITEZ
- It happened other times, too, yeah, especially when we’d go on our bus
trips to other high schools to play. You’d go in to have dinner, and we
have a few Negro boys playing, and you could feel the difference. You’d
feel the apprehension. We didn’t care, you know. We were kids, you know.
We thought of each other as one, you know. But you could feel it, yeah.
- COATES
- Was there discrimination in the town too?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- Your parents, for instance, would they have been comfortable going to
certain areas, or they just didn’t just go there? Or I don’t know if
that’s—
- BENITEZ
- They just went to certain areas where they felt comfortable. I remember
sitting—
- COATES
- So if your mom had tried to shop in a certain part of town, that
wouldn’t have gone well, huh?
- BENITEZ
- No, it wouldn’t have. And we went into a restaurant one time, me and my
mother, and the service person was—she was kind of obnoxious, kind of
[unclear]. Then there was a white guy there. He was trying to hit on my
mother. And I’m a little guy. I just stood up. I says, “Don’t be
bothering my mother.” [laughter] You know, I was protective.
- COATES
- So you’ve always been like that, huh? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah, I have. I’ve always been protective. I’ve always been
protective of the little guys, you know, and the little guys that have a
disability, girls that always had a disability or they were shy and they
didn’t like to be kidded or pushed around, you know. There was all these
people that did that, you know, and I’d step in. I’m a protector.
- COATES
- [laughs] So what did the man do?
- BENITEZ
- He just looked at me. He left her alone.
- COATES
- He saw you were serious? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah. So anyway, there was incidents like that.My stepdad worked for a date grower in Cathedral City, and his wife just
adored me. She’d come over on Saturdays and ask my mother, “Can I take
your son shopping with me?” And she said, “Well, okay, okay.”And so I would go with her. We were in Indio at a cafe, we were going to
have lunch, and she drags me in there and we sit down at the counter. So
the proprietor says, “Where’d you get that brown boy?” [Coates
laughs.] She says, “I’ll have you know he’s brown because he’s American Indian,
and he is one nice boy. Now we want some service.” [Coates laughs.] She
was a Jewish lady and she just spoke her mind. I adored her. She was a
nice lady.
- COATES
- So this was your stepfather’s second wife or later wife or something,
huh?
- BENITEZ
- My stepfather?
- COATES
- I thought you said this was your stepfather’s wife.
- BENITEZ
- No, no, no, no. This was the farm owner’s wife.
- COATES
- Oh, oh, I misunderstood you.
- BENITEZ
- It was the farm owner’s wife.
- COATES
- Okay. Got it.
- BENITEZ
- They used to have people come down from L.A., because it was a big ranch
and they had a big guesthouse. We lived in one of the smaller houses.
They would invite people down from Los Angeles or wherever, and they
would come down and shoot blackbirds, shoot blackbirds, and they would
bring blackbird pie. She asked me one time, “You want some pie?” I says, “No, no.” I says, “I don’t eat bird. I don’t eat blackbirds.”
[laughter]
- COATES
- They’d have to kill a lot of birds to make a pie, wouldn’t they?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. Well, there was a lot of blackbirds there on this ranch. And
they’d come down there to have a party and all kinds of stuff. Every
once in a while, she’d drag me over there, introduce me to everybody. I
guess I was just her—you know, her—whatever, whatever you call them. But
anyway, I adored her because she respected me. She never had any
children of her own.
- COATES
- Now, you said that you lived in some of the housing on the ranch, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Mm-hmm.
- COATES
- Was that a different place from what you were describing earlier that
was on the reservation?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah, yeah.
- COATES
- So how did you get there to this housing on the ranch? How did that
happen?
- BENITEZ
- Well, I guess my stepdad got tired of living—and my mom was, too, she
was getting tired of living off the reservation and living in different
houses and different ranches. So she told my stepdad, she said, “I want
to move back where we can settle down and stay, and you can go work
whatever work you want to do.” So we did.After the last school down in Thermal, we moved away from the ranch and
moved back there. He built a house the best he could, and it was
okay. So then one day a truant officer showed up at the ranch, and to my
mother he says, “That boy should be in school.” And she says, “Well, why?” [laughter] “Because he needs schooling.” And she says, “I give him enough schooling here at home. You know how to
speak Indian?” He said, “No.” “Well, he does.” [laughter] And he said, “Well, you can be arrested.” She says, “For what?” “For not putting him in school.” And she says, “Well, I don’t want to go to jail, so I guess I’ll put him
in school.” And the first time I showed up at school, I was barefooted.
- COATES
- Oh, wow.
- BENITEZ
- No shoes. Barefoot.
- COATES
- And how old were you?
- BENITEZ
- That’s when I was—let’s see. In fifth grade, I probably was about eight,
nine.
- COATES
- So you didn’t go to school before you were eight or nine years old, huh?
- BENITEZ
- [demonstrates]
- COATES
- And then you went right into fifth grade?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, right.
- COATES
- That’s pretty good.
- BENITEZ
- Actually, I actually went to schools, but I wasn’t in school. I stayed
out of school more than I was in, and I guess they just kept moving me
up the ladder till I got to fourth grade. In fourth grade, they decided
I didn’t learn enough, so they wanted me to repeat, and so I got shoved
back with the younger kids, which I didn’t enjoy, because all my friends
moved up.
- COATES
- Right. They went on.
- BENITEZ
- Can we stop that a minute? [End of June 19, 2014 interview]
1.2. Session Two (June 20, 2014)
- COATES
- My name is Julia Coates, and today is June 20, 2014, and I am with Joe
Benitez from the Cabezon Band of Cahuilla Indians. Am I saying it the
way that it is said in the present day? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Right.
- COATES
- Leaving out the Mission designation these days.
- BENITEZ
- Right.
- COATES
- Good. And Joe, we were talking yesterday mostly about your childhood and
everything, so I wanted to try to move into the adult years and the
years all the things that you were doing with the tribe and everything
throughout all your life. But I think you talked about that you went to
college after graduation. Can you talk a little bit about that? Because
your parents didn’t have the means to send you to college, I think you
said, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- So you got there other ways.
- BENITEZ
- Well, my parents helped me with my room and board. That’s what they paid
out of what they earned in their crop gathering. So they helped pay for
the room and board. I drove a school bus when I was there at college and
drove elementary and high school students to their respective schools,
and I did that for two years, and took major courses in business
administration. That’s what I did. I think the thing that really fouled me up was I took a course in
psychology, which I thought I understood, but I didn’t that well, and
that kind of left me without graduation on my the last year, because I
didn’t have enough grade points to graduate. My boarding person, which I
call Mrs. S_____, helped me in trying to get the professor to change his
test scores by redoing the test scores, and he wouldn’t hear of it. He
wouldn’t do it. I was willing to do it. And she was very upset, because
in years past, her sons had gone to that college in Riverside and they
graduated from there. So she was very involved with the school and the
faculty, so she tried helping me do that, and, of course, she wasn’t
successful, because—
- COATES
- Which school was this?
- BENITEZ
- Riverside City College. So anyway, my second year I finished and I left,
came back home. During that course of time of being at the college, I
played baseball, and I played that in the springtime. My grades were
doing okay. I was running about B-minus to a C, and keeping that up in
order to play. We played a lot of different teams in the Orange Coast
League and we also had the opportunity to play service teams like the
Marine Corps base in San Diego and the Naval Air Station in San Diego
and the Air Force contingent in Moreno Valley. So it was a great
opportunity. I loved playing and I loved the coach that I had. He was
very good.My second year, I had a position and I could play. First year, I didn’t.
There was too many other guys that were playing my position, and I was
kind of on the bottom of the ladder, so I played wherever he wanted me
to play. I was kind of like a utility player, and I did real well with
what I could play that first year. And in the second year, I played a
little bit more, so that was good. I enjoyed that. I had a brother-in-law who was a brother, but he was later to become a
brother-in-law because we dated sisters. He wasn’t actually my brother;
he was an adopted brother. They adopted me into the family of some
sorts, and I stayed with them during the summertimes. But anyway, we
used to travel back and forth from college to home on weekends, because
I already had a weekend job, and so I came, and he did too. We’d come
home and spend the weekend and head back to school the next day or
Sunday. So we did that the year that he had left to go to college. And
then the following year, I had the opportunity to drive by myself now.
So anyway, I still worked and was able to earn some money to get me
through school.
- COATES
- What kind of job was it?
- BENITEZ
- I worked at a feedlot. The feedlot, they had me doing repairs to the
different lots that they had, mostly water troughs and cleaning out a
lot of the manure that was there, using a skip loader I knew how to
operate. I’d learned early in my life to operate machinery. I was
twenty, twenty-one at that time. So I made a pretty good living working
weekends. I’d drive back to school, spend the week there, drive a school
bus every morning, every evening, you know, school.
- COATES
- You were working the whole time you were going to school?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, I was.
- COATES
- And playing sports?
- BENITEZ
- And playing sports.
- COATES
- And that makes it tough, yeah.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. But I left school the second year.My first wife, she lived in Pasadena and she wanted to be an actress, and
she had a form of arthritis that was getting a little bit more intense,
a little worse, and so finally she had to leave and go back home, back
to La Quinta, which is here in the Coachella Valley, and live with her
parents. So anyway, I decided I would marry her anyway, because we’d
been going together since juniors in high school. Her father said, “Do
you really want to do that?” And I said, “Yeah, I do. I’ll take care of her the best way I can.” So anyway, we got married in the summer of 1957, and I started working
for a furniture company and I was earning a pretty good living. I lived
at the brother—or the brother-in-law at that time, because he finally
married the sister, and they lived in a house that they had built in the
city of Indio. So he got drafted in the service. I never did go to the service. For
some reason, I didn’t. Korean War, Vietnam War, I was never, never
called in, and the reason was because of my wife’s illness. They
classified me at a lower rate, so they never did call me in.
- COATES
- So this is off the subject, maybe. I mean, they usually only have a
draft during wartime, right?
- BENITEZ
- Well, this was during the Korean War.
- COATES
- Korean, okay. So it was early in the fifties, then.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, it was early in the fifties—late in the fifties, really, because
it was ’57 that he got drafted, and they were still using service people
to go over to man the demilitarized zone.
- COATES
- I didn’t realize that. Wow.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. They still needed personnel to do that, and they also sent
personnel over to Germany for clerical work and so forth, and he was a
clerical service person. So he got the opportunity to stay in Georgia,
and he stayed there for two years during the whole term of his
induction. So we lived in their house, and my wife got pregnant and the
doctors had told her, “Well, you’ll probably never be able to bear a
child because of the illness.” And, lo and behold, she got pregnant, and
we have my son. He’ll be fifty-six this year. We had him, and he was a
newborn preemie, and when he was just an infant, they checked him for
all of those symptoms that she had, and he didn’t have any of it, so
that was good. So anyway, we lived there until he came back from Georgia, and then we
moved to another place across the street, which was a new apartment. So
we lived there for, oh, probably about maybe a year or two years, and
then I finally bought a home, and we moved to the home.
- COATES
- Now, what kind of work were you doing through those years?
- BENITEZ
- Through probably the first four years, I was doing warehouse work. It
was a furniture company, so I took care of all the deliveries and
warehousing of merchandise that came in. And she was getting worse with
her illness and she was spending more time at the hospital. They were
trying to figure out what she really had, and finally one time the
doctor finally figured out what it was that was causing all the problems
that she was having. She had lupus, so she just finally was
deteriorating. My son was going to kindergarten and first grade, and
then in 1967, she passed, and my son was probably about eight. Let’s
see. Yeah, he’s probably about eight. So anyway, we lived at the house for a while, and I had met this lady
that wanted to move in together. So we did, and she had two girls, and
they went to the same school. So Marc had two sisters, more or less, and
grew up with them for probably—oh, I would say, just guessing, about
five years maybe after my wife’s passing. Then that relationship ended, so my son said, “Well, what are we going
to do now?” [Coates laughs.] And I said, “Well, we can’t live here. We’re going to have to move
somewhere.” And he says, “Well, how about if we moved out with Grandma?”
[laughter] And I said, “I don’t know. Let’s go ask her and see.”So we went down. Of course she said, “Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Come live
with us.”
- COATES
- So he’s asking to move out to the reservation, then?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, he wanted to move back out to the reservation to be next to his
grandmother. So we did, and we lived in a little shack that was built a
long time ago, made it more livable, put air conditioning in. At this
time they had electricity and they also had running water, because
Indian Health Service came in and provided her with a well that they dug
at no expense to her, and so they had running water. So we did some
modernization there when I was living there.
- COATES
- Do you know approximately when all that was put in, the electricity, the
running water, etc.?
- BENITEZ
- I would say probably—let’s see—about 1962, ’63, somewhere in there.
- COATES
- Early sixties sometime.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, early sixties. They came in. They put in septic tanks for sewage.
So they had bought a trailer, and they moved that on to the res, and
they were living in that, and they still had this little house there,
and we lived in that, and the Indian Health Service did some other
things. They built a bathroom on to that addition, as an addition, and
so we had a bathroom and shower and so forth. He was just starting middle school. I took him to school for a while.
Then I bought him a bicycle. My parents actually bought him a bicycle,
because I was really deeply in debt with medical bills. So anyway, they
bought him a bike and then he started riding the bicycle to school. He
went to school all three years, and then he finally graduated from there
and then went to high school, Indio High School, which was just built in
the sixties, so he was there for high school. We lived there, oh, quite a while. It was quite a few years. And I was
still working for this furniture company, and then I got a call to go
work for this clinic as a director in the early seventies. So it meant
driving from where I lived across the road to Banning. So I said, “Well,
it’s going to take me away from home most of the day. If my son needs
some help or he gets into a problem—,” blah, blah, blah. My mother said, “Don’t worry about it. We’ll take care of him.” And I said, “Okay.” And they did. Anything he needed, they would go see
what he needed. It was so funny, one year he was interested in motorbike motocross, and
he wanted a motorcycle, and, of course, I couldn’t provide it for him,
so they did. They used to go to San Bernardino, and came back one
evening with a little bike sitting in the back of their truck, and my
son was so happy. [Coates laughs.] He was so happy, and I was very
grateful. And, boy, he used to ride that thing all over the res, and it
was so funny. Anyhow, he was part of the tribe for Chemehuevis, and they had received
a settlement for thousands of dollars for land taken away or something.
So anyway, they had provided him with some money, and also me. So he
said, “Can I buy a bike?” [Coates laughs.] I said, “Oh, okay.”So he bought a bigger bike, and then he had friends in high school that
used to come out and ride with him, so he started riding. Then he said
one day, “I’m going to go down here.” They had a racetrack down in
Thermal. They had a little community down there, and he said, “I’m going
to go down there and race.” And I says, “Okay.” I had a truck at the time, so then we loaded up his
bike and went down, and I watched him and I said—closing my eyes,
closing my eyes, because—
- COATES
- Scary thing for a dad. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, right. He was in a particular class. There was probably twelve,
fifteen riders besides himself. So they all take off the line and
they’re all going like this, all heading down to this narrow opening,
and I just closed my eyes, then opened them up and he was through. So I
watched him, and at one point he had a little accident. He went over.
- COATES
- Oh, no. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- But he was okay. Nothing broken. So anyway, that was kind of like his
growing up on the res. Finally he went to high school, graduated from
high school. He had decided he wanted to go to college and he went one
year. He got a grant from the Bureau of Indian Affairs, educational
grant, and he started going to school.Then he comes to me at the end of that first year. He said, “This isn’t
for me.” And I said, “Well, what are you going to do?” I says, “You’ve got to do
something.” He said, “Well, I’m going to go work for the grocery store.” So I said, “Okay.” In fact, this is where my brother-in-law worked. He
worked for one of the grocery stores in town, so he kind of got him a
job there. So he started working and earning his own money. So finally
one day—he liked my truck, which was a small pickup type of truck. It
was a Ford. And he said, “I want to buy your truck.” [laughs] I says, “Really? You want to buy my truck?” I said, “What am I going to
drive?” He said, “Well, you can buy yourself another.” [Coates laughs.] And I said, “Okay.” I says, “Well, how much do you have?” And he said, “Oh, let’s see. I have $1,500 saved.” And I says, “Well, I’ll take 1,000 of that, and you keep the other
five.” And he says, “Oh, okay.” [Coates laughs.] So anyway, he took the truck
and used it to drive back and forth to work. I was later to find out that he used to go to Banning. This
administrative assistant had three boys—or two boys and two girls, and
they loved to ride. They rode on the res there in Morongo, so he’d go up
there and ride with them, but he also would race the truck on the res.
He’d get challenged, and the guys, the brothers always said, “You should
have seen him, man. He just tore down in the middle of that road and
beat the heck out of those guys.” I just shook my head, and I says, “Marc, what are you doing?” And then he kind of sheepishly told me, “Well, yeah, I was racing a
little bit.” [laughter]
- COATES
- Just a little. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, just a little bit. So anyway, it was a good relationship.Then I started working and traveling back and forth, and then I started
traveling out of town. I had to go to those meetings for California
Indian Rural Health Board, and it would take me away a few days, and I’d
have to tell my mom that I’d be gone for a few days. She said, “Don’t
worry about anything. I’ll take care of him.” I said, “Okay.”So anyway, then finally they sent me to Colorado for the National Indian
Health Board, which I became a representative for California. So my son, he’s still working, not causing any problems at all, because
he—I guess he got into smoking pot, but I don’t think he ever got into
alcohol. So anyway, did that for a couple of years, and then he was
going with this girl, which was later become his wife. He’s been married
to her about thirty-seven years. They have two daughters. I have two
granddaughters. So then I got married to Diana, and I moved her out to the res, and
she’s been here ever since. Couldn’t get rid of her. [laughter] But she
loved it, and that was the main thing was that she was happy there.
Otherwise, I probably would have bought something uptown and moved off
the res, which I didn’t want to do. At the time I didn’t want to do
that. So anyway, my son decided he wanted to move back to the res, so he
bought himself a trailer. Him and his wife moved back. They lived there
for probably five years, and then they decided the wife didn’t care too
much for it, so she convinced him to buy a home uptown. So they did. So in the meantime, I’d had some families that I had living there on the
res with me. They had two sons, and one of the sons wanted to rent the
trailer from my son, so he said, “Yeah.” And he asked me if it was okay,
and I said, “Sure.” So anyway, I had that young family living there. And
for some reason, I had a [unclear] of young boys that he ran around
with. They wanted to live out there because they loved it. So anyway, this other friend of his got married, and the house that my
parents lived in was vacant, and the trailer, and they came to me and
asked me, “Can we move out here and live?” And I said, “Well, you sure want to do that?” And he said, “Oh, yeah, yeah. We love it out here.” And I said, “Okay.” So then I rented that house to them.
- COATES
- Now, these were non-Indian people?
- BENITEZ
- These were non-Indian, yeah, non-Indians. So anyway, they lived there
for, oh, several years. They had two children, and finally that marriage
ended, and he went his way and she went hers. Then I had some Natives
that wanted to come by and live, so I rented to them.
- COATES
- Were they people of the tribe of a different—
- BENITEZ
- Different tribe, and most of them were Sioux from up north. At that
time, we were just starting in the early eighties. A young guy that came
by, he says, “We can’t a build a sweat lodge anywhere in town.” He says,
“I notice you have a large property. Can we build a sweat lodge?” I says, “Yeah, let’s build a sweat lodge.” So we built a sweat lodge and
dedicated it and had a number of sweats I was participating in. So it
just kind of grew; it mushroomed. We had a lot of people, a lot of men,
a lot of ladies coming down for sweats. That lasted for probably about
ten years. And finally, the young man, he got into some problems and so
he had to leave. So the lodgers that were there, they stopped
coming. Then I had another family was Navajo and Sioux, a man and a wife, and so
they came to me and asked me if I would grant them the use of the lodge.
So I said, “Yeah. Well, here’s the things that you’ve got to do,” and so
forth. So they ran it and operated it till he passed in probably another
ten years. So finally she moved away and went to Sacramento with her
daughter, and they lived there, and then she passed away up there.So here I have a nice—not a nice trailer, but a fairly nice trailer
sitting there, and it’s empty, and I’m not knowing what to do with it.
So finally the daughter called. She says, “You go ahead and take care of
the trailer, and if you want to sell it, sell it, or if you want to rent
it, rent it, but it’s yours.” I said, “Oh, thank you. It’s just what I need.” [Coates laughs.] So
anyway, we got through that period. Then probably, I’m saying about five years ago, six years ago, yeah,
about six years ago, another young man came to me and he said, “You’ve
had the sweat lodge here, and I was wondering if you would allow me to
build another sweat lodge.” So I said, “On these conditions, you build a sweat lodge that you
welcome everybody, man and woman, and you run it appropriately the way
it should be run.” And I said, “Nobody gets out of line, nobody races up
and down the driveway getting to the sweat lodge. And he said, “Oh, I’ll makes sure that none of that happens.”
- COATES
- Had people been doing that the first time, or there had been those kinds
of problems?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. The first time was okay. The middle time when the elderly couple
had it, whoever they had coming out didn’t have any respect for them, so
they would race up and down. And I would continually tell them. “Oh,
yeah. We’ll go tell them. We’ll tell them the next time they come out.”
Well, they’d still do it. So and I told this last guy—and we still have the lodge down there, and
I’ve went in a couple of times. I don’t go in because of my heart
condition. So he’s continued to run it. He’s my nephew. I call him
Nephew and he calls me Uncle. But it’s been running smoothly ever since,
and so they’ve been up there for a while. [interruption]
- BENITEZ
- So anyway, that’s that portion. But kind of reverting back to that time
when I was working with Indian Health, it was a trying time for me
because of my absence from my home when my son was going to high school
and so forth, and I was always worried that something might to happen to
him and I’m not there. So I finally had married Diana, and I was still working for the clinic
and still traveling, and I was still doing my thing, drinking and
carousing and whatever. So I finally gave that up at the assistance of
her because she says, “You know, you’re drinking too much. You’re
starting to drink at home.” And she says, “And you’re not pleasant when
you’re drunk.” And I said, “Really?” She says, “Yes.”So then I made up my mind that when our daughter was probably, oh,
twelve, thirteen years old, and she says, “You’re affecting the family,
too, and your son doesn’t want to come around because of your drinking,”
and they were ready to move and they were living there, too, at that
time. I kind of miss that.So anyway, just one day I had been drinking with some guys that came down
to help me slaughter some pigs that we had, and so we started drinking
and was overly intoxicated. So my youngest daughter—they were going to
lunch, and I vividly remember I was kind of passed out in my truck
sitting there, and she came up and knocked on the [unclear], and I kind
of woke up through my fog and I yelled at her, “What do you want?” And
she just kind of backed away and went back over to her mom’s truck, her
vehicle. So then they left, and I passed out.I guess I woke up sometime in the early hours of the night and decided
I’d better go in the house. So I went in and I slept on the couch. And
then the next day, she says, “We’re leaving.” And I says, “No, don’t leave.” I says, “I can take care of this
problem.”I said, “Yeah, I know.” So I quit. I stopped drinking, and I was dry for
two years. In the meantime, the thirteen-year-old, she decides she’s getting into
drugs and alcohol. [Coates laughs.] So then we dealt with her addiction
and I took her to rehab and so forth.
- COATES
- When she was a teenager, huh, a young one?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, she was a teenager. Took her to rehab.After rehab, we had Aftercare, and I was working at the time. I was
working for another company, the irrigation company. So I asked the
boss, I said, “I’ve got to do this.” I said, “I’ve got to help my
daughter get through this,” and so forth. He says, “No problem.” He says, “You go do what you have to do.” So I
would leave, oh, probably about four o’clock in the afternoon, maybe
three o’clock, and take my daughter to Aftercare, which was way in
Redlands at the time. So we’d go back and forth once a week.It was so funny, after she got out of Aftercare, got sober and so forth,
she started going back to school. She comes to me one day. She says,
“Dad?” I said, “Yeah.” And she says, “You quit drinking.” I said, “Yes.” She says, “But you still have some problems.” And I said, “Oh, what do you mean?”
- COATES
- Nice to hear this from our kids. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, really. And she said, “Well, you know, in our circle, which is
called Alcoholics Anonymous, we talk about stop drinking, which isn’t
really the problem. It’s when you start getting sober and you have all
these other issues that you start having problems.” And I says, “You think I have them?” She says, “Yes, you have them.”I said, “Well, what’s the solution?”She says, “Go to AA for thirty days, and if you don’t like it, you can
quit.” So anyway, that was 1985. I went to Alcoholics Anonymous and I’ve
been with them ever since, and needless to say, my life has turned
around. I never thought it would, but it did. I respect my family. I
respect ladies more than I used to. I treat them differently. I treat
everybody differently. They’re all my friends. And I got spirituality
going from the sweat lodge and the circle, and I continue to stay in
that circle, and it’s been a blessing. It really is. I see more and more
young Natives coming into the program. There was only me at the time,
twenty-nine years ago. So, more and more, I see some of my friends that
live on different reservations coming to meetings now, and they’re
getting sober and staying sober, and they keep dragging others with
them, and that’s the way this works.
- COATES
- Did you go through the traditional—I mean, you probably did, because I
don’t know that there were sort of the—I guess the Red Road variations
of it that are sort of tailored to Native people nowadays.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah. I practice the Red Road. In one side of the coin, I practice
the Anglo side. So I intermix them. A lot of my cohorts, a lot of my
friends know that because I talk about my creator, I’ll talk about God,
and so they respect that. They oftentimes tell me, “I want what you
have.” And I says, “The only way you can get it is to come into my circle.” So they say, “Well, we’re willing.” I said, “Okay.” It’s your understanding of a power greater than
yourself.
- COATES
- What was your religious upbringing when you were growing up?
- BENITEZ
- I had none. I had none. My mom never went to church. My aunt, she went
to church on Christmas in a Catholic church and probably attended once
in a while. But growing up, I didn’t have any religious background,
probably never cared about it. I never had a religious background, never
had a cultural background with Natives. I was kind of like a free
spirit, never got involved. It was only when I married my first wife
that I got involved in church, and that didn’t—
- COATES
- And she was non-Native, though.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, she was non-Native. She was non-Native. But even going to church
didn’t cure me of drinking and so forth. [Coates laughs.] That didn’t do
a thing for me. And I’d go because it was her, satisfy her. But, no, I
never grew up with that. Like I say, I’d go to church maybe once a year
at Christmastime with my aunt, who drug me along.
- COATES
- So what was your first exposure to spiritual practice? Was it this—
- BENITEZ
- The sweat lodge.
- COATES
- —Sioux guy that came with the sweat lodge—
- BENITEZ
- The sweat lodge, yeah.
- COATES
- —and that was it? That was when it started, huh?
- BENITEZ
- That’s when it started, yeah. I never realized it before. I’d heard of
it, but I’d never realized it, never experienced it. And once I
experienced it, things started changing, and that’s when I started
discovering that I was doing a lot of things wrong in my living, but I
continued to drink—no, I didn’t continue to drink. This was when I
stopped drinking, when I finally went into the lodge, because you can’t
drink. So I had been sober in 1985, probably 1986, somewhere around
there the sweat lodge started, and then I got into the circle, and I
knew what the circle meant and what it means to us and started that
journey. But before that, I didn’t have it. I understood it, but I never
participated.
- COATES
- So you had actually quit drinking for some time before you started going
to AA, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- You had already stopped for—
- BENITEZ
- I’d been stopped for two years before that.
- COATES
- But your daughter felt that that wasn’t enough? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- That wasn’t enough. That wasn’t enough.
- COATES
- So AA, it’s your feeling, has helped you to maintain it? Would that be—
- BENITEZ
- That would be fair assessment.
- COATES
- —an accurate statement?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, it’s allowed me to maintain it. It teaches me
how to maintain it and stay on this path and stay on this Red Road that
I’m on.
- COATES
- And so as part of AA acknowledging a higher power and all of that,
that’s been the sweat lodge and that way for you has been the—so it
hasn’t necessarily been a Christian, or were they mixed?
- BENITEZ
- They’re mixed. We started going to—when I say “we,” Diana and I started
going to church after we had spent some time in Aftercare with Trayci,
and we decided that we needed a little bit more, not specific the church
concept, but the spiritual concept. And, see, most of the people that
are Anglo, that go to church, most of them go there because of a
commitment to go there. Some of them believe in the scriptures, some of
them don’t. But I feel I have a little bit more because of the spiritual
background that I have with the Red Road and the circle and all the
things that we believe in. It’s a little different. I find that
Christianity talks a big word, but they really don’t follow the word.
You understand?
- COATES
- I understand. I surely do. [laughs] I’m just trying not to interject
into your interview. That’s all it is. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- So it’s been a journey and it’s been a good journey. I have that
unconditional love. It’s like I can love you for who you are, what you
are, and not expect anything in return, and that’s the whole concept.
Sometimes my mind goes in different directions, but I know how to pull
it back in. [Coates laughs.] So anyway, I love this life. I do. I just
wish that more of my tribal members could get that concept and get that
feeling. They have it. They’re almost there, but some of them aren’t.
- COATES
- [laughs] Well, you could suspect that was probably always the case, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, really, really, really.
- COATES
- So Diana kind of popped into the story here, but you didn’t really talk
about how you met and all of that.
- BENITEZ
- That’s a story in itself. I went back and started working for the
furniture company after I left the clinic as a director, and I went back
and started—I’ve always been in sales. After I had made my thing with
the company in the warehouse, I went to the floor and started selling.
So I went back and I started selling again, and I was a salesman, and
they moved me up in to an assistant manager. I used to take care of all
the other crappy things, and I’d go over to Cathedral City, which had
another store over there. And who worked there? Diana. She worked there
as an office manager. So they’d send me over there when the manager
would go on vacation, so I noticed this sweet young girl there, and I
used to talk to her, and she says, “Don’t get too familiar with me,
because my husband is parked outside, and he always watches what I do.”
- COATES
- Oh, my gosh.
- BENITEZ
- And I said, “Well, doesn’t he work?” She says, “After he gets off work, he comes over here.” Because she was
a cute little thing. She was cute. [Coates laughs.] So I said, “Okay. I
won’t ask you about dinner or lunch or anything like that.” I says,
“I’ll wave at you and smile at you, and that’ll be all.” So anyway, I didn’t know it at the time, until she told me that, that
she was having that kind of a problem with him, and so she had called me
on the phone, and said, “Can I come and see you?” And I says, “Come and see me?” I says, “You’re married and your husband
is a jealous person.” She says, “Well, I’ll come over. Because he’s still working, I’ll come
over to the store where you are on your lunch hour.” So I said, “Okay.” And so she did, came to the store, and all the guys
were standing there. They knew who she was, because they’d seen her at
the store. So I said, “I’m going to lunch, guys. I’ll see you in a
little bit.” And they, “Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.” They get to teasing. So anyway, we go have lunch, and she starts telling me that she’s
thinking about divorcing him. I said, “Well, you’ve got two children.
What’s the problem?” And she said, “Well, he’s abusive verbally as well as physically.” And I said, “Oh.” “And he’s been going out on me too. He’s been seeing other women,”
because he was Hispanic. So in his world, he thinks he can do that,
because you know all Hispanic men seem to have that attitude.So anyway, I said, “Well, when you decide to do that, just let me know,
and I can take care of you okay.” I says, “You need to move or anything
like that, you let me know. I’ll come and help you.” So she says, “Okay.” So this went on probably six months.Eight months, she moved to Mission, Texas. He decided he wanted to move
them down there, so she left. So I didn’t hear from her, didn’t hear
from her for quite a while.And then one day, she calls me on the phone. She said, “I’m ready to come
home.” I said, “Okay.” I said, “What about your husband?” She said, “Well, we’re separating.” I said, “Okay.” So she came back and I saw her, and then I continued to
see her and visit her at her parents’ house, where she was staying with
her children. So anyway, she decided she was going to move closer to
Indio, because that’s where her work was. She worked at a bank, and she
was working the [unclear], but they sent her down to Indio to work. So
she worked there. She was driving back and forth. So she decided that
she’d move closer, where her work was, and she did. So anyway, one evening I go by to see her, and he shows up. Needless to
say, it was a confrontation. All it took was two, three punches, and he
went down and he left.
- COATES
- Oh, my gosh.
- BENITEZ
- He left and he never did bother her after that.
- COATES
- Really? Wow.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, he never bothered her after that. So finally she—let’s see. What’d
she do? She stayed there for a while and then she moved back to her
parents’ house because she didn’t know what he was going to do
afterwards. So anyway, she moved back there.So finally she got her divorce and she’s still working at the bank. She
had moved back to the other bank in Cathedral City, was working there.
So we started going out and dating and so forth. Then one day I asked
her, I said, “You want to get married? You want to move out to the
res?” And she says, “I’d love to.” And I said, “How about the children? What do they feel?” And she says, “They’ll go. They’ll do anything.” [Coates laughs.] I said, “Okay.” So anyway, we moved out to the res and she transferred back down to
Indio, worked at the bank there. The children were enrolled in the
school. By that time, we was getting bus service for the children,
because I went to the district and said, “I have three children soon.
They’ll be using your bus service. I need bus service out there.” And they said, “Okay. Where do you live?” I told them, and they said, “Okay, we’ll create a route.” So they came
by and picked them up and brought them back every day. So anyway, as they got older, they invested in some three-wheelers that
they used to ride around on. [Coates laughs.] And my daughter Trayci,
she would go over to see some friends at a ranch, which was probably
about a quarter of a mile away, and then she’d jump on her little
three-wheeler and take off, go down the road.
- COATES
- Now, your oldest son was pretty much out of the house already by that
time, right?
- BENITEZ
- Pretty much, yeah. Pretty much. He was living in his grandmother’s
trailer for a while, and then he decided to move uptown.
- COATES
- But he had already graduated from high school at least and was working
and all that?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah, yeah. So he was out on his own. It was kind of a hard time
for me. He couldn’t quite accept the fact that I had gotten married
again. It bothered him, but anyway, he got over it. They’re very good
friends now. Took a while.
- COATES
- And how old were Diana’s two kids when you got married?
- BENITEZ
- Let’s see. I think seven and nine, I think, and Trayci was just
probably—eighteen months old? Eighteen months old, because my mother was
still alive, too, and she got to see her before she passed, and I was
happy for that. My mother gave her a bird name in Indian, and Trayci
today just still remembers that, and she always says, “And I have an
Indian name too.” [laughter] So anyway, she’s very proud of that.
- COATES
- Is she the only one? Your son doesn’t?
- BENITEZ
- He has one too.
- COATES
- Does he?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- So your mother gave them to—
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, my mother gave them to them.
- COATES
- —all the grandkids.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- Great. You were talking yesterday about the nature of the—there’s a
tribal meeting every year or so throughout all of these decades, right,
and everybody, even if they’d moved off to wherever, they all come back
for these meetings once or twice a year. And you’d said yesterday that
probably through the thirties and the forties, those had been more
meetings to just kind of check in and be social and say hello to people
and so forth. At what point does it become more—
- BENITEZ
- More organized?
- COATES
- More of a organizational or governmental meeting, even.
- BENITEZ
- I would say probably in the middle forties after the war. After the war,
it became more organized. They elected chairmans and they had a leader,
and then they had their elections and became chairmans and secretaries
and whatever. It was kind of formerly done that way until I was old
enough in, oh, 1957—’57, I would have been about twenty, twenty-one, and
I’d already been enrolled in the tribe. My mother had enrolled me.In 1961, the then-chairman was wanting to retire. He didn’t want to be a
chairman anymore and he came to me. He says, “You ought to run for
chairman.” And I said, “No. No, I don’t want to be a chairman.” He says, “Yes, because you have education and you know what’s going on.
You know how to talk.” And he says, “You may have some struggles with
your membership, people that are on the council, but you’ll get through
it okay.” And I said, “I don’t know. Let me think about it.” So anyway, I did, and my first wife says, “You should run. They need
leadership and they need organization.” And I says, “But I think I’ll catch a lot of flak from all the tribal
people, especially the elders.” And she told me, she said, “Never mind about that.” She says, “You’re
going to catch flak anyway, whoever it is.” And I says, “Oh, okay. All right. I’ll give it a shot.” So anyway, they elected me during the elections and elected two other
people for vice chair and secretary and treasurer, and that became the
formalization as I understood. At that time it started to be formalized.
We started writing Articles of Association to govern the Business
Council, and we set up bank accounts and we set up—you know, a secretary
had to have minutes recorded, which they weren’t doing before that.
- COATES
- Now, what was the impetus to begin doing all of that? Was that your
idea? Were those initiatives to sort of formalize it a little bit more?
- BENITEZ
- After the Indian Reorganization Act that the government placed on all
the tribes, that’s when they started doing that. The BIA got more
involved. They would send a representative to help us set up the books,
set up the way the secretary had to take minutes, and those minutes had
to go to that person.
- COATES
- But that act had been passed thirty years earlier, so they had never
done that—
- BENITEZ
- Never had done it. Never had.
- COATES
- —for thirty years, but then suddenly by the early sixties, it’s the
Bureau that’s actually urging you to sort of be more formal about it?
- BENITEZ
- Get more and more formal. Because they were getting into an era where we
were going to deal more with the federal government on certain things,
so we had to. We just took it and said, “Yep, we’re going to do this,”
and we did it. And, oh, the tribal elders, “No, we don’t have to do that. We don’t have
to do that. What’s this government coming to?” And all blah, blah, blah,
blah. I says, “It’s so that if we want to get some of these fundings from the
federal government to do what we need to do, that’s what we’re going to
do.” And they said, “Well, we get money from—.” I says, “Where do you get your money from for operation? Where do you
get your money from for development?” And they looked at me with a blank
stare. They didn’t know.
- COATES
- They had no idea, huh?
- BENITEZ
- They had no idea. So my first term, we set up an office and we got a
grant to run that office. We got a grant to set up accounts for
different things and run that office. Then after we set up the office,
then somebody came from the University of California at Riverside
wanting to develop jojoba. I don’t know if you’ve ever heard of that.
- COATES
- A what?
- BENITEZ
- A jojoba.
- COATES
- Nuh-uh.
- BENITEZ
- It’s an oil-producing plant that’s used in—
- COATES
- J-o-j-o-b-a, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. It was supposed to replace the sperm whale oil
that they use today for cosmetics and pharmaceuticals and all that
stuff. So anyway, this scientist came by and he said, “We can do this.
If we grow enough jojoba, we can harvest it and so forth, and you can
start to generate some income.”And so I was a little skeptical. So, “Okay, we have some acreage way down
and we could develop.” So we developed it and planted jojoba, started to
grow. First year we didn’t get any seeds. The second year we got seeds,
and there was no market. [Coates laughs.] There was no market. Something
that happened that the jojoba plant was starting to phase out. Even at
the insistence of the scientist in going to the World Trade Market and
seeing that other countries were developing the jojoba plant as well and
starting to generate it, but we weren’t able to take part in that for
some reason. I don’t know. But anyway, it finally went down the tubes.
We finally [unclear] it up and planted alfalfa.
- COATES
- Alfalfa always is good, huh? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, really. The scientist passed away, and so that ended that program.
So we started—what did we start? Oh, we started a smoke shop, and we had
two different locations within the reservation.
- COATES
- And when was this? Is this in the sixties?
- BENITEZ
- Let’s see, yeah, late sixties. And that was working pretty well until
the state came in and said, “We’re going to have to tax you because of
Public Law 280.” And we says, “No, you can’t.” “Yes, we can.” So anyway, they finally said that we could be taxed for
the service sold on the reservation. So that ended the smoke shops and
ended the smoke shops in Washington and Portland, all up and down the
coast, because they were 280 states as well.
- COATES
- Wow. I didn’t realize that law extended beyond law enforcement
jurisdiction. So it goes into regulation and taxation issues too, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, it does.
- COATES
- I did not realize that. Wow.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah. So then we said, “Okay. What else can we do?” And they said, “Okay. We’ll start a little card room.” They started the
card room, and by this time I was out of office, but I was seeing what
was going on, and there were several times they raided the poker room,
shut it down. Then they started the Bingo hall. Now, they couldn’t shut
the Bingo hall, because the Bingo hall was everywhere in the state. All
the church organizations were having Bingo, so they couldn’t shut that
down. So they kept continuing to harass us in the poker room. They even
went so far as to say that there was mafia involved in the card room,
and there probably was, and we had a tribal member that was killed
because of it.
- COATES
- Oh, really?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah, back in the eighties.
- COATES
- What was that about?
- BENITEZ
- Well, he was on the Business Council and he was getting more and more
disillusioned because of what was going on in the card room, and he was
finding that there was—he thought there was skimming going on, there was
mafia involved, and the developer was having some ties with those
people. So he was ready to go to an attorney and divulge all of this as
what he’d seen, because he worked inside the poker room. Well, lo and
behold, that same year, we went by to pick him up to go to see the
attorney, and we found him dead in the backyard.
- COATES
- You found him, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- Oh, my gosh.
- BENITEZ
- Me and one of the other tribal members. Yeah, they had been shot. So
anyway, we went and called the sheriff’s department. They came out, did
an investigation. Didn’t last very long. They closed it all down. They
shut it up. And to this day, they have not found who did the contract
murders.
- COATES
- But they know that it was, huh?
- BENITEZ
- They know, yeah. They know. They know. But why they covered it up, we’ll
never know.
- COATES
- Well, we kind of know, don’t we? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, sure we do. Yeah. So anyway, that’s kind of the—
- COATES
- So it’s a struggle through all of these decades, huh, through the
sixties, the seventies, the eighties to try to find some sort of
economic enterprise that—
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah.
- COATES
- And when you do have things like—well, the jojoba doesn’t ever work out,
I guess. The smoke shops did for a little bit before they’re shut down.
What was done with the revenue? What is it used for, then, later?
- BENITEZ
- It was mostly used for, I would say, salaries and whatever type of
reaching out we could do to get people interested in the property, and
that’s what we were trying to do.
- COATES
- The reservation, huh?
- BENITEZ
- The reservation, because we have strategic areas that front the freeway,
front the main artery that goes into town, and we had good property, and
that’s what we were trying to institute. Then we talked about the period when the Cabezon sued the State of
California because of this card room thing, and they had a small casino
going at the time too. The county came in and wanted to close it down,
and they successfully did. They shut the doors and locked them up, and
nobody could go [unclear], and so then that was part of the litigation.
So when that was sent up to the Supreme Court, where it was finally
[unclear], is the day that those doors opened back up. County couldn’t
come in and help antagonize anymore. They wanted to. They tried to, but
even the FBI came in and told them, “No, you guys get your butts out of
here. You have no jurisdiction out here.”
- COATES
- Yeah. It’s all federal now, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- So that decision came down in 1989. How long had that case been working
through—
- BENITEZ
- Through the channels?
- COATES
- —through the various levels of courts, yeah.
- BENITEZ
- Oh, I think it was filed probably, I’m guessing, probably about 1985,
somewhere in there.
- COATES
- Four or five years, then?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah.
- COATES
- Had it gone into state court first? Is that what you said yesterday?
- BENITEZ
- It went to the federal level [unclear].
- COATES
- Right, because it was lost in the state, but then it jumps to the
federal level, right.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- Were you represented? Was Cabezon represented by the Justice Department
in the state cases, do you know?
- BENITEZ
- Let’s see if I can remember.
- COATES
- I’m just wondering, because I know that that’s what Justice did in the
case of fishing rights, for instance, but I don’t know if they would do
that in gaming.
- BENITEZ
- I don’t think they did. We had a private attorney that took the case,
and he took it all the way to Supreme Court. I don’t think we had any
help from the Justice Department on that.
- COATES
- If we can jump back to—you said you thought it was probably about the
mid-forties when these annual or semiannual meetings of the—
- BENITEZ
- Of the council?
- COATES
- —of the council begin to take on more than a social character to them.
What was the drive at that point? Was it the IRA again or what was it?
- BENITEZ
- I’m going to say probably it was the government was—one of the things,
if I can remember correctly, was I think they were doing allotment
programs at that time, and so they were heavily involved in that, and
they were trying to decide—because, see, at that time there was two
different tribes involved with one particular section of land, which was
the Twentynine Palms Band of Indians and then the Cabezons, and they
equally shared one section of land. So they were trying to handle not
only Twentynine, but also their own, and so Twentynine people would come
in and they would meet at the same time going over these allotment
programs.And so finally some of the Twentynine made selections on property, but
they got very disillusioned and very mad because of all the jealousy
that was going on during that time, because they were part of the Tribal
Council, that they just got mad and left. They just moved and they
relinquished their hold on their allotments.
- COATES
- Oh, my goodness.
- BENITEZ
- And my mother was telling us, which was my aunt and my uncles, she says,
“Don’t do that. Don’t do that. Stay there. Stay there.” And they said, “No, no, no, no. We’re not going to fight them.” They
didn’t want to find them. And they had some good land. Half the section
of the property was Twentynine and the other half was Cabezon, but they
had some good land. Somehow or another, some of that land got sold off,
and it was in that circle of people that were on the council that were
probably instrumental in selling those properties off.
- COATES
- I see. I see. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. So anyway, that’s something I’ve always brought up before the
council and the chairmans in discussion. I says, “How’d that land over
here get out of trust? How did this land get out of trust? How did that
roadway, which is Dillon Road, get through the reservation.” And they just scratch their head. “I don’t know.” Because they’re
young. And I says, “Well, it’s something that’s worth investigating, don’t you
think?” [laughter]
- COATES
- And you know very well what the story is—
- BENITEZ
- Sure.
- COATES
- —but you want them to go find it on their own, huh?
- BENITEZ
- That’s right. That’s right.
- COATES
- Because they won’t believe it until they do, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Mm-hmm.
- COATES
- So when that happened, were there tensions, then, that came about as a
result between—
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- I mean, I’m sure there were. Did they persist over time, or have they
kind of—
- BENITEZ
- Here’s what happened. In 1961—this all takes place in ’61—in the
sixties. The Bureau came to us and said, “Okay. You have two Tribal
Councils that own this section of land. One is Twentynine and one is
Cabezon. Would you be in a better position to operate this portion of
your land and let the Twentynine Palms people operate their own land and
have their own council, you have your own council?” And right away, it was [unclear]. “Yeah, that’s what we should do.” So
we brought in Twentynine. All of the relatives come in. We sat down,
talked about it, and they said, “Well, okay. We’ll agree to separate the
property and we’ll set up our own Tribal Council. You can continue to
have yours. That way we won’t interfere with each other’s business.” So
that’s what happened.The federal government came in. They said, “Okay. This portion of this
property belongs to Cabezon. This other portion belongs to Twentynine,”
and that’s how it was set up.
- COATES
- So does this lead to a situation where previous to that in the fifties
and the forties and going back, when these meetings would happen,
there’d be a lot of people, right?
- BENITEZ
- There’d be a lot of people.
- COATES
- And now, you told me yesterday, that Cabezon has twenty-four members at
this point?
- BENITEZ
- Mm-hmm, adult members.
- COATES
- Twentynine Palms is even smaller?
- BENITEZ
- They’ve got sixteen. Yeah, they’ve got sixteen.
- COATES
- But previously it would have all been together, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yes. Right, right. And it probably was a better situation that they
divided the property in half and allowed the Twentynine people to
maintain their own business and let the Cabezons—
- COATES
- So the division between Cabezon and Twentynine Palms occurs then because
it’s an expediency to deal with property questions or something like
that.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, exactly, exactly.
- COATES
- But it’s not because of an animosity internally or—
- BENITEZ
- No, no.
- COATES
- —anything like that. So there’s a good relationship between the two
today, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah, there’s a good relationship. It wasn’t back then.
- COATES
- It wasn’t back then. Okay.
- BENITEZ
- No. And it wasn’t back till 1960 when we made that separation, because
the Twentynine, which is Chemehuevi, they wouldn’t come to the meetings.
They wouldn’t come back.
- COATES
- After that division?
- BENITEZ
- After, mm-hmm, yeah. But they’re happier now. They have their own
meetings and have their own chairman and so forth, so they’re a lot
happier. They have quite a bit of property.
- COATES
- And they have gaming also?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. They have a casino across the street that’s 29, and they just
opened up another casino in Twentynine Palms.
- COATES
- But you don’t view each other as competitors necessarily?
- BENITEZ
- No. No, none [unclear]. We’re always talking about who does better.
That’s about it.
- COATES
- [laughs] I mean, there’s got to be competition, but it’s not a
competition that leads to a bad feeling or an animosity or anything like
that?
- BENITEZ
- No, no.
- COATES
- What about the revitalization of culture that takes place? When does
there begin to be an interest in trying to relearn and recapture
language and cultural knowledge and a tribal history and all of this?
Does that begin to occur under your administration as well, or is it
earlier or later?
- BENITEZ
- I would say it’s been later. It’s been later. It started, I would say,
probably about in the eighties. Mid-eighties, I think that’s when it
started. I think the culture had always been there, but everybody was so
fragmented because they didn’t live on a reservation, and those that did
were very far and few between. There was just my family and the Calloway
family. Those were the only two that were living on the res after
the—let’s see, after the sixties, I guess it was. But before that, like
I said, there was the three, four government homes over built on the
res, and those were inhabited by tribal members until they left too.
Then they rented those out probably in the middle forties, just right
after the war. So we didn’t have any tribal members living on the res up
until that time, but I still had the opportunity to put my other tribal
members’ kids down in the other section and whatever was here. I never
seen those, but I did see the others.
- COATES
- You were talking earlier, not on the tape, but we were talking at
breakfast about the songs, right, and there was a generation of elders
that didn’t teach those to the next generation. So when do you all start
to try to relearn those, and how is that done?
- BENITEZ
- Well, it was done by one elder from another reservation that started
some groups of young boys to sing, starting them to sing, and they just—
- COATES
- What was this person’s name?
- BENITEZ
- Robert Levi. Robert Levi, he was an older bird singer. He sang Cahuilla
songs. My uncle’s songs were in Chemehuevi.
- COATES
- And what was your uncle’s name?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, my uncle’s?
- COATES
- I don’t think we said yesterday.
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah. My uncle’s name was—the oldest was “Lilly” Mike. Nobody could
say Little Mike, so they shortened it down to Lilly Mike. [Coates
laughs.] He was the oldest. There were two older brothers, but they had
been killed in San Bernardino County. They would have been older. But
Lilly Mike and Johnson Mike and Sam Mike were the three surviving
brothers. They’re the ones that sang.Dorothy Mike was my aunt, Susie Mike was my mother, and Carlota was the
oldest of the daughters, but she was the one that was killed. Let’s see.
There was four and five, five brothers and four sisters and three living
and four living of the brothers—or three living of the brothers.So they actually never cross-learned the Cahuilla bird songs or vice
versa. Robert Levi used to talk about wanting to learn the Chemehuevi
songs, but he was never taught by any of the singers. And even today,
the Chemehuevi still sing. They still sing in Havasu, Lake Havasu area,
because that’s where the reservation is, and they sing further up north
toward Kaibab and Utah and parts of Nevada, and they sing a lot there.
They follow the same language like the Hualapai and the Yavapai along
the Colorado River, and tradition-wise, same. They’re a part of the
southern Paiute congregation, similar in language, but not the same. My
mother could speak Cahuilla and speak Chemehuevi and a little bit of
Serrano and her English, broken English.
- COATES
- Wow.
- BENITEZ
- Because she never had an education, was the amazing thing. She still
could write her name. She learned that. She learned—let’s see. She went
to some kind of a school there on the Morongo Reservation when she was
young. That’s some kind of church school or something. So she learned a
little bit. The aunt learned more because she went to the boarding
school at a younger age and learned more there. She knew how to bake and
cook and do different things. My mother knew how to cook, but she didn’t
know how to bake. So there was different things that they learned. Like
I say, never knew my grandfather, never knew my grandmother, because
they were gone. Let’s see. What else did you ask me?
- COATES
- Just sort of about what the process of cultural revitalization has been
over the last—well, it’d be almost thirty years, I guess, if it really
gets under way in the eighties.
- BENITEZ
- It gets under way in the eighties. I think that’s the time period where
I think all the reservations were not—that finally the realization that
all of this other stuff was dying away, like Robert Levi was getting
older, and he was teaching most of all of the young people throughout
the reservations how to sing.So they finally realized that they had to do something. Then they started
little education programs. Torres-Martinez had it and the Aguas had it
and Morongo, the bigger reservations. We never got into it until just
three, probably four years ago when they started language here, and then
there the realization—after we had a powwow that we put on every year
where we invite all the different tribes to come, and that’s been
twenty-six years in progress. I think that’s when we really hit a sense
of being part of is when all these tribes come in and the exposure and
everything. Yeah, I think that’s when it really, really started was that
period.
- COATES
- Well, it reminds me of the festivals that you were talking about that
you used to go to when you were a child when everybody gathers together,
you know—
- BENITEZ
- Oh, yeah, yeah.
- COATES
- —and so it’s probably the contemporary equivalent of that in a way.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, exactly. Yeah.
- COATES
- What has been the relationship between—I mean, you’ve talked about this
a little bit in some of the things you’ve said, but if we can talk about
specifically the relationship between the tribe or the reservation and,
say, the county. You’ve talked about the county coming in or the state
and shutting things down and so forth. Can you talk about how that’s
changed over time?
- BENITEZ
- It’s changed dramatically with the fact that the Tribal Councils have
gotten together with the counties and talked to their leadership and
tell them, “Look, we have tribal sovereignty, and therefore even Public
Law 280 gives you the authority to come onto our reservation, but your
jurisdictional thing stops because of the sovereignty issue, and so,
therefore, we want to work with you.” We don’t have fire, we don’t have
policing, and so forth. Some of the reservations do. Well, we don’t. “So
we will allow your police department or your sheriff’s department come
on property, and if they have to make an arrest, they have to contact
the tribal office first and let us know what you’re doing. Don’t just
come into the reservation and start doing all these tactical things like
you normally do off somewhere else in the county, because you can’t do
that, and we don’t like it. We don’t like that handling at all.” So they
have agreed to set up a go-to person.
- COATES
- Sort of a liaison, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, a liaison, right, that handles the county to the reservation
leadership.
- COATES
- Now, was that a tough negotiation? Were they agreeable to that right
away, or did they resist it?
- BENITEZ
- Oh, hell, no. They resisted and they said, “Hell, no. We’re not going to
do that. We have all these jurisdictional rights.” And that’s when we told them, “No, you don’t have all these
jurisdictional rights.” City doesn’t even come out here. If you call
them, they won’t come. Once in a while they’ll come if it’s a big enough
situation that they need to, and the fire department is a different
situation, whereas the county fire departments provide all the—covers it
that we need.
- COATES
- Yeah, they want to get a fire out no matter where it is, don’t they?
[laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah. Yeah, they do.
- COATES
- That’s not a hard sell.
- BENITEZ
- That’s not a hard sell. And we’ve been able to work with the county
supervisors. We have a supervisor that comes out and he asks us what
we’re doing, we ask them what they’re doing, and they’re not providing
this, or they’re getting too much involved in this, and they shouldn’t
be, and blah, blah, blah. So he takes that back to the county
supervisors. So they work more in conjunction with them too. We also get
the feds coming out. The congressman always comes out here and visits
with us and finds out what we need done in the areas of tribal business,
federal to tribal.
- COATES
- Now, did they do that before the advent of gaming? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- No, no, they didn’t.
- COATES
- Thank you. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- No, they didn’t. No, nuh-uh. No, they wouldn’t even come out here. We
had one congresswoman that never came out here. Even when tribal gaming
was in, she never came out. They finally replaced her. She had been
there for—I don’t know. She was going for four terms, and they kept
reelecting her, reelecting her. And finally, I guess they just got to a
point where they got enough Democrats to vote for this individual that
finally ousted her to get her out. She would always come to me and ask
me, “Well, why doesn’t the tribe ever invite me out?” And I says, “You want to come out to the reservation? Come on. We’ll
go.” She said, “Oh, no. I’ll be such-and-such day.” Never show up.
- COATES
- Doesn’t show up?
- BENITEZ
- No. I say, “You talk out the side of your mouth.” I says, “You really
want a relationship with the tribal governments, go visit them.”
Otherwise, they don’t care about you. They’ll go up there. They get more
work done at the—
- COATES
- At Sacramento, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, Sacramento and the federal office. Forget about you. [Coates
laughs.] But this other congressman, he’s good. He’s Hispanic and—
- COATES
- Who is this?
- BENITEZ
- This is Raul Ruiz. He’s Hispanic, but he’s part Native, and he has a
feeling for the people. He doesn’t have the feeling for—because he’s a
doctor. He had his own practice. But he understands the needs of people
who have no means. He understands the federal government and he
understands the Indian governments, and he works with them. Comes and
visits, and, “All right. What do you need?” type thing. Or he goes back
to Congress and talks to them all [unclear].
- COATES
- That’s good.
- BENITEZ
- And that’s what you need.
- COATES
- Yes, it is. Going back to the law enforcement situation for just a
moment, when it comes to a point of saying, no, you don’t have
jurisdiction or not to the extent that you think you do, I would imagine
they don’t just accept that, either. I mean, what actually happens to
convince them that they need to show you this consideration?
- BENITEZ
- Well, I don’t know what it is. I think it’s the power that we’ve gained
over the years because of gaming. I think that’s it. They know that we
have the power not only in the state level, but in the federal level, so
that if it needs be, we can say, “Hey, you guys don’t want to cooperate
and understand what we’re doing? We’ll bring somebody in that can
explain it to you so you understand.” So that’s what we do.Because for years all the tribes throughout the country never had the
means of getting into politics and talking to people in leadership,
whether it be law enforcement or the governor or the local supervisors,
because they wouldn’t have anything to do with us. They said, “Oh,
you’re just another reservation out there with Indians that are trying
to survive.” And that’s what we were doing. But when gaming came in and
the tribes started earning their money, so then the whole thing started
to revolve around the tribes because of what they could do in
Washington, D.C. They had power. And it’s sad to say that it takes that,
but that’s it does to change everything. So it’s been a good road to
ride on and walk on, but there are also obstacles get in the way, but we
know how to handle them better today. We don’t say, “Oh, okay. Well,
whatever you want.” Not anymore. We stand up and say, “Well—.”
- COATES
- Not for the last twenty-five years, yeah. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, that’s right.
- COATES
- So when the decision comes down in 1989 in the case in the Supreme
Court, what happens after that in terms of the development of gaming to
the extent that it is now? How does that process proceed throughout the
nineties, for instance?
- BENITEZ
- Well, it proceeded very slowly, because a lot of the tribes didn’t have
the economic base that they needed to construct new casinos and hire
personnel that can run them, because they didn’t have the wherewithal to
know what was going on in those casinos. You know, some people had an
idea, but as soon as investors got a hold of it, then they wanted to
invest money into those casinos. And a lot of the tribes have used
borrowed money to develop their casinos, and that’s just a matter of
fact, because tribes didn’t have the money.
- COATES
- That’s what anyone that wants to start a new business would do, is look
for investors.
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, that’s right. That’s right.
- COATES
- So does Cabezon specifically approach investors, or do investors
approach Cabezon?
- BENITEZ
- Well, initially, they approached the Cabezons. We had one of the biggest
investors that wanted to—and I don’t know what happened to the
relationship, but one of the biggest investors that want to come in and
build a new addition to the casino is Steve Wynn, who’s one of the
biggest casino owners in Las Vegas. We were starting to get those type
of people coming down and want to invest money, but I don’t know what
happened to the relationship. Something happened. Wynn went his way, and
we continued to look for other investors, and we had Hard Rock Cafe
wanting to invest money, and then that went away, and there was some
other people want to invest money just so that they could say they were
connected to a casino and helped develop it. And we were looking for
ways to increase the size the size of the hotel, and we’re still
looking. We’re still looking for investors. We’re doing that. We’re
still trying to pay off our other investors as well. We don’t want to
get too far involved with owing a lot of money out.
- COATES
- Right. So you did find investors. Even though these others had backed
out—
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. Oh, yeah.
- COATES
- —there were others that obviously—
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. They wanted to help build this and expand it.
- COATES
- And so you have current agreements where once you pay them off, they’re
out, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah.
- COATES
- And it’s totally—
- BENITEZ
- That’s right. They’re gone. That solely is owned by the tribe. The other
thing that we have going right now is the recompacting negotiations
that’ll be starting up pretty soon.
- COATES
- With the state, that is?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, with the state. And Jerry Brown’s a little amiable to the casinos,
but he still wants his cut of the pie, and they have to negotiate that.
[Coates laughs.] But they’re looking at trying to increase the amount of
time. We had a twenty-year compact, and now we’re trying to increase it
to another thirty years to increase the number of years, and that’s
where all the tribes come together.
- COATES
- Right. Yeah. You don’t negotiate individually on that one, right?
- BENITEZ
- No, no, no. And each individual tribe has certain things they have to
negotiate on. [recorder turned off]
- COATES
- Okay. So we were just talking about the compacting situation with the
state and so forth. Do you know what the rate is, the percentage that
goes to the state at this time from the—
- BENITEZ
- No.
- COATES
- It’s in the twenties somewhere probably, huh?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, I’m sure it is. But the thing about it is that that money that
went to the state is earmarked for non-gaming tribes, and that’s where
it’s supposed to be going. My understanding is some has been paid out to
non-gaming tribes, but not a whole lot. And that’s one of the things
that they want to renegotiate on, I think, this go-around is to make
sure that those non-gaming tribes get their share of the money that’s
being paid to them. Some will have to go to education, and a lot of it
goes to education and non-gaming tribes.
- COATES
- That’s a real generosity on the part of the gaming tribes themselves, I
think, because that doesn’t necessarily happen in other places—
- BENITEZ
- True.
- COATES
- —to my knowledge.
- BENITEZ
- True. Yeah, true. But that’s part of the compact.
- COATES
- Yeah. Well, maybe one last thing that we haven’t covered yet, and it’s a
broad, broad question, but over the sixty years or so of your adult
life, could you make some general observations about the change that you
have seen for the tribal members from what it was sixty years ago to the
present time?
- BENITEZ
- Boy.
- COATES
- That’s a huge question, huh? [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah. But it isn’t so huge, no. You know, those times were hard times
for everybody, not only Indians, but non-Indian as well. They were all
coming out of the Depression. A lot of the people were coming west
because they thought there was more work here. Indians living on
reservations survived with whatever could be provided. The federal
government helped them in subsidies, food subsidies. I know, because I
used to go with my mother and stepdad down to pick up the provisions
back in the late thirties, and all the rationing that was going on
during the war, no sugar, no chocolates, no gas, no rubber tires. All of
that was being provided to the cause, and so you did without. But even
sugar wasn’t there. There was substitutes. That’s where I learned first
about saccharin. Oh, the interesting part was—I didn’t mention this—was that we lived in
Palm Springs with one of my uncles, who was Uncle Lilly, and he was
fortunate enough to be a carpenter, and so he had work all the time. It
didn’t pay much, but he had enough money to live on. So we didn’t have
much either, and my stepdad was always looking for work, and he’d work
whatever he could. So we all kind of lived together, and I could
remember just using the saccharin for sweetening the tea and things like
that, and then going, like I say, in the later times was going down to
the agency, which was in Torres-Martinez, to pick up provisions. Once a
month you got your flour, your beans, and your corn—and what else—apples
if they had them, fruit if they had it, and that was it. That was for a
month. That had to last a month, and my mother knew how to make that
stretch. And coming out of, like I say, the years when we had nothing,
really, nothing, we lived in shacks and, like I said, no running water
or no toilet facilities and no heating, no air conditioning, but we
survived. We survived. Then when I finally got out of the home, I started making my own living
and having the education that I had, it was easy to get work. I could
work anywhere I wanted to and earn a living and take care of my family,
and I even took care of my mom and dad once in a while providing them
with different things, because I knew they didn’t make a whole hell of a
lot of money. And it just kind of increased over the years economically
until gaming came, and it’s unfortunate that my mother wasn’t alive at
that time. She had already passed, stepfather as well, but they didn’t
live to see it. But now I’m reaping whatever’s there, and my children who are enrolled
that are getting the benefits. Their condition of life has been
increased by what’s been provided. Sometimes I think we have too much
money, but some of us handle it better than others, and that’s the way
it goes.
- COATES
- So you’re building homes on the reservation. We were talking about that
yesterday.
- BENITEZ
- We built twenty—let’s see, I think about twenty-five homes on this one
tribal property, and members had a chance to pick out what home they
want, how big they wanted it. I had my own allotment, so I never
participated in that. I could have. I could have had them build me a
home on my lot, but at that time we already had our home, and it was
comfortable and it was nice, so we opted not to have one built. But they
put those twenty-five homes down there, and then they’ve been a godsend
for everybody. Everybody lives in better conditions.
- COATES
- And it’s brought people back to the reservation, hasn’t it?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, it’s brought people back to the reservation, because they have a
place to live now. But the homes are well maintained. They have their
own gardening service that takes care of the complex. It’s all gated.
It’s all walled-in and it’s a community in its own. So there’s not much
to say about that. They don’t have a Community Center yet, which we’ve
always talked about, but never have made the effort to build one. But
our children go to school. Some go to private schools. I know my
granddaughter goes to a private school, gets a better education. She’s
smarter than a whip, even shows us how to work cell phones—
- COATES
- Phones and computers and everything else, right. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- —and iPads and computers.
- COATES
- Well, they all do that. [laughs]
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, yeah, really. And so it’s—
- COATES
- And I presume better healthcare for everybody. They have access now at
least through insurance plans and things like that?
- BENITEZ
- Mm-hum, yeah. We still have the clinics in Riverside or Morongo
Reservation. We have satellites that are still operating on
Torres-Martinez and up in Santa Rosa, because those people can’t get to
a nearby clinic unless they drive thirty, forty miles to get to one, so
that clinic still provides services, which is good. But we have medical
insurance that takes care of major things and hospitalization, and so
forth. I would say a few are members have invested their own money into
different things for their later years. I know my son has. He’s the
financial director for the tribe.
- COATES
- And you said yesterday there are a lot of kids. There are a lot of
younger people who are not members?
- BENITEZ
- Yeah, there’s a few.
- COATES
- Are they going to become members at some point?
- BENITEZ
- They will become members one day.
- COATES
- So the tribe will be growing.
- BENITEZ
- It’ll grow. It has to grow, because it can’t survive on the membership
that’s here right now. It will go away and it will be like Augustine.
You know, Augustine Reservation only has one adult member and five
children. So it will be something like that, and we don’t want that to
happen.
- COATES
- Right. I spoke to a woman from Augustine that I think some of your
relatives, the Mikes, had told her about this project or whatever, and I
was surprised. I think she told me there were nine members or something
like that, and it was very small. So what do the kids have to do to
become members? It’s not something automatic when they’re—
- BENITEZ
- No, it’s not automatic. They have to be a certain percentage of blood,
and then they have to have lineage to a living or a past descendent that
was a member of the tribe.
- COATES
- So all that has to be documented, and—
- BENITEZ
- It’s all documented.
- COATES
- —they have to make an application.
- BENITEZ
- They have to make an application. The application, if approved by the
Tribal Council, the Business Committee, then it goes to the BIA for
final approval.
- COATES
- Are most of the kids going to meet the blood degree requirement?
- BENITEZ
- I think so. I think so. I think so. That’s always been a struggle too.
It’s always been an issue. But it’s like any other reservation. They all
have issues with that.
- COATES
- Okay. Well, are there other things that you want to put on record?
- BENITEZ
- No, I think we’ve covered most of it, working in the tribe and tribal
governments, growing up on the reservation, the ancestry and how far
that goes back, and I’m still trying to research my
great-great-grandfather, see where he came from, and that’s not easy.
BIA doesn’t have back records, and none of the other organizations
don’t. So I just kind of feel my way through. I’m checking with people
that are still living. Maybe one of these days I’ll come to him. That’ll
be a good day. [laughter]
- COATES
- Okay. Well, thank you so very much for the time that you’ve given to all
of this and all of the time outside of the interviews as well. It’s been
a pleasure.
- BENITEZ
- Sure, sure, sure. [End of June 20, 2014 interview]